zoso192 Posted January 26, 2014 Posted January 26, 2014 Here's where im confused. I met this girl and we had talked online for about 2 weeks. Third week she came over my house every day. I always made steady sexual advances on her but she always told me she wasn't ready and didn't want to do "it" yet. I always respected her, however, I always caressed her when I saw her and touched her and was was responsive but when things got too hot she would cool them off. We went on two dates and on the second one she slept over and the furthest we did was mutual masturbation that night. I told her I was falling for her and I really enjoyed the time together we had spent. I did confess that I wanted to sleep with her but was content on waiting until she was ready. I even told her I was falling in love with her and she told me to relax. The thing that bothered me was that while she told me she considered me very serious and that I was a potential long term, she always kept her dating profiles open to other guys..like wtfff. The following week she gave me heartache and headache for not reciprocating the way I felt to her. She would tell me but her actions never showed. Maybe I moved too fast? Maybe I came on too strong? I don't understand cause she would tell me one thing, but then act another way..very frustrating I lost her and I don't know why
Author zoso192 Posted January 26, 2014 Author Posted January 26, 2014 Yes it felt like she did. I think the real problem I made her my only one I wanted, while she always kept me as a side option. It felt like **** and I sometimes pressured her. Im 21 and shes 22. By mutual masturbation I mean we both layed next to each other and touched each other to orgasm. Coming to understand timing is a big thing...I felt comfortable I guess she was not. Kinda sad on her part, oh well shes losing out
Author zoso192 Posted January 26, 2014 Author Posted January 26, 2014 yeah we went on two dates and would watch lots of tv shows
spirius Posted January 26, 2014 Posted January 26, 2014 Honestly, that's way too soon to be saying you love someone. You almost certainly don't or didn't. Different horses for different courses, but also sounds pretty heavy on the sexual advances front. Delayed gratification can be a good idea.
Author zoso192 Posted January 26, 2014 Author Posted January 26, 2014 I see and think you are correct on this. Thanks for the feedback
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