Cali_Love86 Posted January 26, 2014 Posted January 26, 2014 Hi everyone, need your input/thoughts. So i was dating this girl for about 10 months and things were going really good then the communication/text slowly stopped. we eventually stopped talking to each other for about 3 weeks. i finally texted her and asked what happened between us and she replied back that she felt like the relationship wasnt going anywhere and we have been talking for 10 months. when i asked her do you mean making it official like bf/gf she said yes. so what do you think do i still have a shot in saving this relationship? advise?? thoughts??
allenpo123 Posted January 26, 2014 Posted January 26, 2014 She thinks you are just texting/talking/contacting her to kill time. She might have thought you two could have been bf/gf, but you never initiated anything further so she's losing interest, she's 90% givin' up on you. So basically, she just thinks you all talk, no do. You have no other choice than to try harder, make her feel like she's appreciated, action speaks louder than words. ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS. Really. If she still likes you, she'll give it a shot, if you've already lost her trust and attention you don't stand a chance. Sorry I'm a little harsh, but the same thing happened to me before, dated a guy for like 6 months, and nothing. The guy is a coward, he wants something else but was too afraid to ask, and at that time being, I thought he lost interest, or was just lonely. I decided I wanted to be with a man so I moved on.
Author Cali_Love86 Posted January 26, 2014 Author Posted January 26, 2014 thanks for the replies and yes i do need to step it up and tell her how i feel about her. She has agreed to talk in person about this so i will definitely show her my actions. We live about an hr away from each other but we saw each other when our time was free. 1
deathandtaxes Posted January 26, 2014 Posted January 26, 2014 thanks for the replies and yes i do need to step it up and tell her how i feel about her. She has agreed to talk in person about this so i will definitely show her my actions. We live about an hr away from each other but we saw each other when our time was free. Limited contact can very well lead to a relationship stalling out. It sucks that things go cold rather than you two talk about it. It's very possible that she's already checked out and just hasn't summoned the nerve to end things. Be warned.
Author Cali_Love86 Posted January 26, 2014 Author Posted January 26, 2014 Limited contact can very well lead to a relationship stalling out. It sucks that things go cold rather than you two talk about it. It's very possible that she's already checked out and just hasn't summoned the nerve to end things. Be warned. see thats the thing deathandtaxes i have said to her if she wants to be single then just tell me no need to be nice to me so i did give her a chance to just end things but she didnt.
mammasita Posted January 26, 2014 Posted January 26, 2014 Holy [email protected] has some patience. 10 months? I would have bailed after about 2-3 months if the guy showed no interest in moving things to the next level. You're actually very lucky she's willing to hear you out. At the same time....why didn't she ever take the initiative and ask you what your status was.....or did she?? Definitely recommend stepping things up 150% if you like this girl and she's willing to give you another chance. Good luck!!
abby2 Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 If you like her then why don't you ask her to be your gf?
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