mangoman99 Posted January 26, 2014 Posted January 26, 2014 (edited) Hey guys i wrote a big long message on this but decided to edit this!.. i think it was a bit to vague. Ok.. without too much background, detail straight to the point. I was seeing this girl, i pushed her away a few months ago, she had plans to vist me where i am now. here is my question. she insists on just being friends - YET : she came over to me in Dubai! luxury holiday. Dream come true kinda holiday, she wanted to sleep in the same bed, we were holding hands and cuddling, maybe 20/30% of the time she didnt wanna cuddle etc. kissed me a few times, noting special. always touching me in converstation, eye contact etc. constantly happy. that was the first two days of the holiday then on the 3rd i was seeing all this and no matter what prviously happedn i am a smart guy and "usually" good with women, i though she must be into me again, approched it on her and then she lost her ****. we started arguing, got over it but it faded on for a day or so, we werent as close then. fact is im not really worried about that, alot of that was me truth me told, what my point is, what "friend" sleeps in the same bed, spoons, get messaged by you, is affectionte etc. i know she was on a high being constantly happy but she is a stubborn strong girl, once she decides its hard to get her to reconsider. my questions.. i don't believe she was using me but like anything in life its always a possibility but i find it even harder to belive she wasnt to be just friends deep down, basically i really hurt her and she went off with some one else, she is strong but weak in some ways i am not. can some one help me understand all this. she went home today and i am going back tomorrow, i need to decide to i persue this or do i leave it as it, we parted happy and no issues but we just started off amamzing then i pushed thigns to much, i should have let her soak in the happiness we had etc. was stupid for me to ask her how she felt about us and then get annoyed over it, was a real dick. i was so frustrated feeling she was into me hten id talk to her about it and she would say no lying in bed next to me.. i am a very proud guy, i am always used to being in control, i've a great job, good with money not bad looking but as arogant as all this sounds i am so good to her. any advice? Edited January 26, 2014 by mangoman99
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