Space Ritual Posted February 15, 2014 Posted February 15, 2014 If your ex has to have these items for work then simply have as limited contact as possible. And by that I mean if possible just box up the items and print out an inventory list and drop them on her porch and walk away without as much as a word. No ringing the doorbell to let them know the stuff is the...nothing. I know this the of stuff is hard but if you do not have to have any contact with her, by all means do not. And yes I would echo those posters who advise you to let that other woman's husband know. He will probably believe her of course, but it is not on you to convince him. I think I can speak for many of us who were cheated on and discovered later friends and acquaintances knew about it but never informed us for whatever reason. In my case, discovering people close to me knew what was going on for months but were silent was equally as devastating as walking in on my fiance screwing some guy in my bed.
Space Ritual Posted February 15, 2014 Posted February 15, 2014 And the husband is aware of his wife's behavior (I found out via the grapevine) it seems like he gets upset about it then lets it slide, so it's nothing new, my ex even described her as "a bit of a slut" nice... birds of a feather... Grapevines are by rule pretty inaccurate.....I would put very little stock in grapevines. Tell him yourself. Trust no one but yourself.
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