skateboy Posted January 26, 2014 Posted January 26, 2014 She is my classmate in the college. After a year thinking I asked her for friendship and she said: I'm not the kind of girl to do these stuff... It's has passed around 4 months from my request and we never talked about that again, but we are still friends and somehow I think she likes me.She treats me well. She's some sort of religious I think but anyway I love her. I've faced a dilemma and I don't know what to choose? 1. Wait for 4 years and then 25% chance to marry her 2. Give up on her,find another girl but loose her forever
Dallers Posted January 26, 2014 Posted January 26, 2014 Correction: She doesn't want a relationship with you. No one ever said that I am not the kind of girl do these things and meant it, they are just not interested in doing them with you. If you not compatible you are not compatible. Don't waste your life waiting to see if anything will change, it rarely does and even when it does you still wasted all that time to find out she is pretty normal and boring.
d0nnivain Posted January 26, 2014 Posted January 26, 2014 Option # 2. She doesn't feel the same way about you. Find a girl who loves you back.
deathandtaxes Posted January 26, 2014 Posted January 26, 2014 You don't love her. You are lusting after her. She made it clear that she doesn't want to be beyond what you currently have. You can continue to be her friend and accept that there will be zero chance of romantic involvement. I don't know if I would advise this if you still have interests in her beyond being a friend. Unrequited love and lust can be a real b.
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