WP4046 Posted January 26, 2014 Posted January 26, 2014 It's this one girl at my new job whenever we around each other there seems to be a awkward moment. Whether it's walking past each other in the hallway or riding the elevator together. But when I am around all the other woman it's no feeling of awkwardness at all. I am relaxed and we can have a conversation with no problem. But when I am around that one girl it just seems so awkward. And I am wondering is she attracted to me also which is why there always this awkward moment between us? It's like we are both shy around each other when we are in the same place.
Stay Posted January 26, 2014 Posted January 26, 2014 You being awkward and thinking you're awkward is making you feel like she's awkward which in turn makes the situation awkward. Enough awkwardness? Haha all jokes aside, if you're awkward, people will feel it. It's weird but I know it's true, if you carry yourself confidently people are going to be more relaxed. It's only awkward if you make it awkward. So no there's no mutual attraction based off awkwardness. 1
Author WP4046 Posted January 26, 2014 Author Posted January 26, 2014 You being awkward and thinking you're awkward is making you feel like she's awkward which in turn makes the situation awkward. Enough awkwardness? Haha all jokes aside, if you're awkward, people will feel it. It's weird but I know it's true, if you carry yourself confidently people are going to be more relaxed. It's only awkward if you make it awkward. So no there's no mutual attraction based off awkwardness. I always hated that i was relaxed around ugly women and nervous around the pretty ones
deathandtaxes Posted January 26, 2014 Posted January 26, 2014 This is how a lot of guys get in trouble, thinking that all these signs and moments are portents of attraction. Such ego. If a lot of other ladies aren't awkward around you, but this on is, then she is probably just really, really shy. Why don't you say 'hi, my name is WP4046.'? 2
Author WP4046 Posted January 26, 2014 Author Posted January 26, 2014 This is how a lot of guys get in trouble, thinking that all these signs and moments are portents of attraction. Such ego. If a lot of other ladies aren't awkward around you, but this on is, then she is probably just really, really shy. Why don't you say 'hi, my name is WP4046.'? I haven't had a reason to talk to her yet since she is in a different dept but I will eventually. I can only talk to women I don't know if I have a reason to because I'm shy too
deathandtaxes Posted January 26, 2014 Posted January 26, 2014 I haven't had a reason to talk to her yet since she is in a different dept but I will eventually. I can only talk to women I don't know if I have a reason to because I'm shy too Ahh...it seems like you are both really shy and neither of you will say anything to the other. It's not mutual attraction. Best way to overcome shyness? Practice not being shy. How? Say hello. You won't die.
Author WP4046 Posted January 26, 2014 Author Posted January 26, 2014 Ahh...it seems like you are both really shy and neither of you will say anything to the other. It's not mutual attraction. Best way to overcome shyness? Practice not being shy. How? Say hello. You won't die. The only thing I said to her was this when we were both on the elevator together on our way home. The elevator didn't go straight down to the 1st floor and i said to her "seems like the elevator never goes straight down this time of day" and her reply was "nope" LOL, I know I'm a geek
sagetalk Posted January 26, 2014 Posted January 26, 2014 I can only talk to women I don't know if I have a reason to because I'm shy too That's absurd, get over it. You always have a reason. The reason is, you think she's attractive and you want to talk to her. Plus, you shouldn't date women at work anyway. Carry on. 1
Author WP4046 Posted January 26, 2014 Author Posted January 26, 2014 That's absurd, get over it. You always have a reason. The reason is, you think she's attractive and you want to talk to her. Plus, you shouldn't date women at work anyway. Carry on. That's true which is why I want to get to know soon as possible so the attraction can decrease. One we become coworkers and cool I don't have to fantasize about her from a distance anymore
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