mos009 Posted January 25, 2014 Posted January 25, 2014 Hi, I broke up with my GF on xmas day MOST STUPID DECISION, because I was very confused different culture etc.. Next day I apologized, and told her lets get back. She told me no. I tried ( BEGGED) one more time she said no LETS JUST BE FRIENDS (HATE THIS SENTENCE), it has been now almost 1 month since we officially broke up. I did not contact her for about 3 weeks, yesterday I called her to say OK lets get be friends, we had a dinner but she invited her sister, her son and her friend as wel, did not talk about getting back together. She seems like nothing happened LIKE everything is fine. While I am here thinking about here 24/7. She is very depended woman that is why I liked her so much. She has everything( looks brain and money). I am thinking to not contact her for maybe 1-2 more month for her also to realize. I will also never will beg to any girl again, I don't know what to do here. It drives me crazy this is my first serious relationship. we been together for 7 months. Need some advice! Please dont say; Its your fault and learn from it. This is I already know. But for me impossible is nothing. So please give me some good tips
Mariposa10 Posted January 25, 2014 Posted January 25, 2014 I think your ex gf is very smart by not taking you back instantly... What if you get "confused" again...I'm not saying you're going to, but I'm seeing things from her perspective. Only time will tell, and yes, no more begging! Good luck!!
CharlieHarper91 Posted January 25, 2014 Posted January 25, 2014 Man we are in the same boat.. I ask my ex girlfriend for a break cause the relationship causing us a lot of stress.. I thought it would help us to miss each other and have a better relationship in the future. Turns out she doesn't wanna go on anymore and wanted to be single.. Trying to get her back but she rejected me twice now.. since then I wish her the best and just stayed no contact.. Regretting the decision every damn day but can't do anything and it hurts so bad everyday.
Author mos009 Posted January 28, 2014 Author Posted January 28, 2014 I think your ex gf is very smart by not taking you back instantly... What if you get "confused" again...I'm not saying you're going to, but I'm seeing things from her perspective. Only time will tell, and yes, no more begging! Good luck!! Well I send her flowers and a gift, told her exactly how I feel. She told me she needs to think about it. It the meantime should I talk to her or let her do her own ****? thx for the advices
pickflicker Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 Well I send her flowers and a gift, told her exactly how I feel. She told me she needs to think about it. It the meantime should I talk to her or let her do her own ****? thx for the advices You have to leave her alone now. She has to make the decision to come back to you. It's up to her now.
crederer Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 You broke up with her. You did it on a whim and regretted it. You really hurt her feelings and she now sees this relationship as on thin ice and why bother? I've been in her shoes. Ex did exactly the same thing and I can say it was very hurtful and confusing for me. I know exactly how she feels and good for her for being strong enough to stick to her guns. I'm sure she cares about you man, but you opened her eyes. 1
Author mos009 Posted February 10, 2014 Author Posted February 10, 2014 ppl make mistakes, anyway she did not contact me for 2 weeks now. I also did not contact her. I am thinking to go to her house and talk. I know it is over, and I will be ok with it, but dont let me wait like at least she has to tell me
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