dontgiveuponme Posted January 25, 2014 Posted January 25, 2014 (edited) Hello i read somewhere that writing all your thoughts and what you really feel helps to make u feel better.I want to share my story and looking for answers and prayer for u guys. Me and my fiancee been together for 3 years now but we have a long distance relationship.We talk on Skype everyday and he comes in my country every 6 months and spends 6 to 8 weeks with me and every visit is awesome. We meet over facebook and after 3 months of talking everyday he decided to go to my country and meet me he is 22 that time and im 23.Our relationship is perfect my family loves him and his family loves me we are talking bout the future all the time and we tried to apply for my visit visa but sadly we got denied.Then we tried again and this time its a fiancee visa but theres a problem with the financial requirement and they hold it.. This is his 5th visit but this time everything went downhill our relationship is not the same anymore we tried to sort things out a few times but its not working he said he is just stressed bout the visa and his work.I ask him if he still loves me he said yes and he dont want to lose me he also keep saying since the 1st year our relationship he will never give up on me.I tried to understand him but then he prefer to have his own space by going out with other foreigners to bars from 4pm till 4am and he keeps doing that everynight. Then he gets mad on every little things and keep his distance to me and starting to get cold.One time he told me if the visa granted we need to get married and he is not ready yet but if the visa got denied he dont like it either coz then we wont have a normal relationship. 2 days ago he gets mad again at me and im tired crying and saying sorry so i packed my things to give him some space he hugs and kiss me and he said hes an idiot.The next day i tried texting him to reconcile but he said what for i got mad so i texted him ill gonna give him his ring back and he said he will like it if i will do that and he also said i better leave him alone and let him be happy. Im so confused and hurt i dont know what goes wrong and what did i do that makes him go mad.Im thinking of giving him 4 days to think and wont text him that time then go back to the apartment to talk to him and sort things out but im scared he might not open the door and push me away Please help me what i need to do and im sorry bout my bad english because english is not my language. it hurts so bad that i feel like im dying inside. Edited January 25, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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