Karasmatic Posted January 25, 2014 Posted January 25, 2014 I am 34 and still single. Never been married or have kids. I am not over weight. Get told I am attractive at times. I have had 2 serious relationships in my life. One for 3 and a half years and the other for 1 year. Last relationship was 4 years ago. Dated a few times in between but nothing has worked out. Even just in general. Keep meeting jerks who just want sex. . I do enjoy the freedom of being single and having no kids. Having no one to answer to and being able to do what I want, heck I pretty much still live like I am in my 20's lol. It does get a bit lonely at times. I really miss having someone around. Feeling a bit down about it all. Never thought I would still be single in my mid 30's. It doesn't help when you are seeing younger members of your family getting married before you, everyone on Facebook putting up wedding, baby photo's. Not to mention Valentine's Day. Groans. I really, really hate that day. It is an American thing. I am Australian so find it annoying we adopt this. Also April Fools and Halloween. Give me Thanksgiving over this day anyway. We don't celebrate that. Just is frustrating. That I have to wait so long to find this guy. Swear he is living under a rock or something. Feel like I will never meet him! Just wondering if anyone has any ideas to meet any decent single guys in their 30's or older. 1
d0nnivain Posted January 25, 2014 Posted January 25, 2014 I met my husband when I was 39 at a business networking function. I read a book called Guerilla Dating about trying different things to meet new people. It recommended that you always have a smile & a warm greeting. You need to do new things. See who's around during your day? Where do you get your lunch or morning coffee? Can you take or teach a class? Have you told people that love & care about you that you are open to introductions?
RaidDolEm78 Posted January 25, 2014 Posted January 25, 2014 I have been feeling this way as well lately. I am 35, about to be 36 in a few months. After this last failed relationship I had, while I'm not quite up to dating yet, I do feel that I am ready to start meeting new people, making new friends. And, who knows, maybe I will be introduced to the man of my dreams through one of these new friendships. I posted about something along these lines a few days ago, because I wasn't sure howto go about meeting new people. Meetup.com was suggested to be by a few people. I know exactly how you are feeling! I wish you luck
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