mr_mopar Posted January 25, 2014 Posted January 25, 2014 Hi, I had a dear friend whom meant alot to me but apparently she had issues with things I asked, and didn't tell me until she got mad apparently. Like when she told me she never got braces as a youngster and I asked why apparently she took offense thinking that I inferred that she was white trash which was the last thing on my mind. We would spend the day together and often she would initiate us getting together. Right before we had a falling out she would email me three times a day...But she got upset at me but never told me everything and her friends told her she was over reacting it got worse. She emailed me telling me we shouldn't talk. I havent contacted her and its been three months. I really would love to reconcile but I don't know if I should, and if so should I address what she got upset about? Or will that reopen wounds? Any advice?
Mondmellonw Posted January 25, 2014 Posted January 25, 2014 You call her a "dear friend" were you a couple, or just friends? If so, I guess this in the wrong forum. If you already apologized and she told you she doesn't wants to talk anymore, maybe there's nothing else to be done. But I think you could try to explain to her that you didn't know that it was a sensitive theme to her, and that you are sorry and will respect her completely from now on. It's on her if she accepts, and it's a little more on you if the relationship "gets well".
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