WalkingDino Posted January 24, 2014 Posted January 24, 2014 Well I just had the nicest conversation with my ex. We were together for over a year and we broke up when I caught her agreeing to go out with a guy at Uni, not to mention the lies. I thought that maybe we could work through it as we had been together for so long and I loved her but she mesed me around, mixed signals, not wanting a relationship but sleeping together still. She still pleads her innocence about this guy, that they werent and aint dating but I kept my side and it drove me mad as I knew she was. I went NC three days ago, told her I love her but if she doesnt want to be together then I need to move on. I found out today for the last month shes been saying some really horrible things about me to her friend, im a stalker who cant accept its over, a fat plank, lazy, do nothing, psycho, you name it I got called it, to be honest the names didnt hurt at all, it was finding out I was right, she was texting him the whole time we were supposed to be working things out, she deleted the messages so when she showed me she looked innocent, what a messed up thing to do. She inboxed me earlier been horrible again, demanding I stay out of her life, I havent been speaking to her, she called me a creep. It was obvious she was with him so I asked her and I couldnt help but say that shes a whore because three days ago she told me she loved me, two weeks ago she was in my bed, so tell me how obvious is it that this was going on before we ended. I told her I dont want to be with her and ive got better things to do with my time then talk to her, she swore at me, called me names and blocked me before I could reply. I find it funny she says she never lead me on and she never told her friend about this guy, she pleads her innocence to her too, I am a monster in there world but I guess its nice that im all they talk about.
TaraMaiden Posted January 24, 2014 Posted January 24, 2014 The best revenge is to live well. Off you go.....
somecamel Posted January 24, 2014 Posted January 24, 2014 Feel for you mate, I'm going through something similar, chin up, I'm 8 days NC but we're on a 'break' for a month:P I'm actually starting to enjoy it, the first 2-3 were terrible, I came her on the 3rd day and told my story. You'll get a lot of support:)
Keenly Posted January 24, 2014 Posted January 24, 2014 Let her keep doing this and in 10 years wonder why she's alone. No skin off your back.
Author WalkingDino Posted January 25, 2014 Author Posted January 25, 2014 I emailed her earlier and didnt stoop to her level of name calling. I told her I knew she was with him and I dont see what lieing gets her. I said I accept the break up, I love her and wont forget her but im ready to move on. I thought id end things on grown up terms since her way is to lie, call me names and block me. I dont know if she will regret her decision, I dont really care, shes his problem now and im free to find someone else who will love me and be happy.
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