Easyguy14 Posted January 24, 2014 Posted January 24, 2014 Let me explain that I'm not concrete positive of this but its an assumption I do feel confident about. Me and her used to work at the same job last year before I quit (funeral home) and we stayed in touch as platonic friends only so I'm confused as to why she might be doing this. For ex. last week we went to apple bees together to eat and watch the game (football) and I was eyeing one of the women there but my friend kept working at keeping my attention on her the more I wanted to get the other woman's attention. Needless to say I didn't get the chance to talk to said woman. Then it was last night at this dinner meeting for the FDA, I tried to start up a conversation with a beautiful woman around my age as we've been checking each other out all evening and my friend intruded on our conversation and kept interrupting and was just all in the conversation, so I never got a good opportunity to get said woman's phone number. It was just too awkward for me right there. The thing is my friend is so sweet and easygoing so I'm not positive this is on purpose and she's never made any moves on me otherwise since she's twice my age so what's going on?
Keenly Posted January 25, 2014 Posted January 25, 2014 Do you really need to ask ? She's an attention whore. She doesn't want you romantically but still wants all of your attention on her. Toxic human being. 1
Cakess Posted January 25, 2014 Posted January 25, 2014 Yeah, she sounds like the mixed signals kind of girl... I think unless you are interested the next time she does this be less polite about it so she sees that you don't appreciate her attention. It'll most likely only injure her ego.
Author Easyguy14 Posted January 25, 2014 Author Posted January 25, 2014 Yeah, she sounds like the mixed signals kind of girl... I think unless you are interested the next time she does this be less polite about it so she sees that you don't appreciate her attention. It'll most likely only injure her ego. Thanks for your help. I'm really curious and bothered that three posts were removed for no reason whatsoever. There was nothing offensive about them so I really don't understand what happen.
preraph Posted January 25, 2014 Posted January 25, 2014 To me it sounds like she's trying to date you and doesn't get that you only feel platonic. She's acting like she's with you and may truly feel she is. You need to talk to her. Just tell her, Hey, you know I value you as a friend, but I've noticed if we go do something, you seem to get possessive if there's other women around. I hope I haven't given you the wrong idea some way, but to be clear, we're just friends. If she says okay fine but continues to do it, tell her point blank "I thought we talked about this. Don't be possessive with me!"
Author Easyguy14 Posted January 25, 2014 Author Posted January 25, 2014 To me it sounds like she's trying to date you and doesn't get that you only feel platonic. She's acting like she's with you and may truly feel she is. You need to talk to her. Just tell her, Hey, you know I value you as a friend, but I've noticed if we go do something, you seem to get possessive if there's other women around. I hope I haven't given you the wrong idea some way, but to be clear, we're just friends. If she says okay fine but continues to do it, tell her point blank "I thought we talked about this. Don't be possessive with me!" Thank you for your response but I done that before with a woman back when I was in school and she pretended to agree then cut me off altogether and I don't want that happening here. There's another dinner meeting in a week for the FDA so I'll see what happens if I approach another beautiful woman or the same said woman is there. If my friend interferes again then that's three and I will then tell her what I think in a subtly polite way of course.
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