johnww92 Posted January 24, 2014 Posted January 24, 2014 Ok me and my ex where going out for over 2 months but before that she just came out of a 2 year relationship. Long story short we rushed things and went too fast and she wasn't ready for the serious commitment so broke up with me recently. She said she wanted to be alone to sort herself out and I tried talking her out of it but didn't beg. I went N/C for a few days to give her time but we accidentally bumped into each-other at a bar. I tried talking things out but she said we where both drunk so to text her the next day. I text her the next day had a little chat and told her that if we started things fresh and went slow this time things might go different then last time. I told her to think about it and get back to me and she agreed and said she will. So I think I still have a chance to fix things, like she seen I was still a happy and fun person even without her and I wasn't texting her all the time begging her to get back to me or anything desperate so I think she will give it another chance, if not then I'll move on. What I want to know is, if she gets back to me and agrees to start fresh how do I go about it? I know I'll take things slow and steady but just wondering if any of you got other advice?
xUnknown Posted January 24, 2014 Posted January 24, 2014 Ok me and my ex where going out for over 2 months but before that she just came out of a 2 year relationship. Long story short we rushed things and went too fast and she wasn't ready for the serious commitment so broke up with me recently. She said she wanted to be alone to sort herself out and I tried talking her out of it but didn't beg. I went N/C for a few days to give her time but we accidentally bumped into each-other at a bar. I tried talking things out but she said we where both drunk so to text her the next day. I text her the next day had a little chat and told her that if we started things fresh and went slow this time things might go different then last time. I told her to think about it and get back to me and she agreed and said she will. So I think I still have a chance to fix things, like she seen I was still a happy and fun person even without her and I wasn't texting her all the time begging her to get back to me or anything desperate so I think she will give it another chance, if not then I'll move on. What I want to know is, if she gets back to me and agrees to start fresh how do I go about it? I know I'll take things slow and steady but just wondering if any of you got other advice? Keep doing what you're doing. Don't beg. Live your life. You have to keep the mindset that you are moving on. So do that. IF she comes back, then cross that bridge when you get to it. Don't get your hopes up only to have it not happen and let yourself down. Just let it be. You have her thinking about it, which is what you want. Don't force it by asking again. Let her come to you. Should she say yes, then slowly start back into things. I'm at this point now. May be meeting with ex again to start things slow. So, I'm new to this as well. its all about your mindset. You can't seem clingy or needy. You have to let them want you.
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