freebird31 Posted January 24, 2014 Posted January 24, 2014 I think about my ex. We both are 21. And I'm still not over him, 9 months later. I still miss him. And sigh. It's been a long journey/: I guess he wasn't ready to get serious...I was competing with his friends for his time. And all I wanted was just him to balance it out...bit either way I was asking more from him..and I think maybe that freaked him out... I miss you so much. I'm sad that things couldn't have ended better....I think about you all the time...the void in my heart still aches for you a lot. Blah it's just unfair:/ I miss him too much.
Kizza Posted January 24, 2014 Posted January 24, 2014 Try dedicating some quality time to yourself ... one day another man will come along and you will be ready to be confident and amazing for him
Author freebird31 Posted January 24, 2014 Author Posted January 24, 2014 I have been dedicating time to myself. Blah. Idk what's wrong with me:/ why I still miss him...after all this time...it's just been too long. I wonder how he's doing. Blah.
iouaname Posted January 24, 2014 Posted January 24, 2014 I feel the same. It's been a really long time and I still feel like I'm in pieces some days
robbysurfs Posted January 25, 2014 Posted January 25, 2014 I think of her everyday sometimes all day and I wonder how she is. My heart is hurt and hardened this one was tough. If I would of known the last time i would see her the day I left her apt I would of said goodbye. She never called me and I did not call her at that point I think we both let go and because of my stupid pride its almost been a yr. I cant and wont contact her but I do miss her so much she made me feel so alive. All the wonder in the world felt at the tip of my fingers I really loved her. I keep replaying the relationship over and over I coulda shoulda woulda but didnt. I feel for you ladies it is hard and harder to connect with someone new. You are not alone in this one some days are better then others but like the song goes "aint no sunshine when shes gone" Melissa I miss you sooooo much I wish you would come back to me I pray for you everyday and I hope you are happy.
Author freebird31 Posted January 25, 2014 Author Posted January 25, 2014 I think of her everyday sometimes all day and I wonder how she is. My heart is hurt and hardened this one was tough. If I would of known the last time i would see her the day I left her apt I would of said goodbye. She never called me and I did not call her at that point I think we both let go and because of my stupid pride its almost been a yr. I cant and wont contact her but I do miss her so much she made me feel so alive. All the wonder in the world felt at the tip of my fingers I really loved her. I keep replaying the relationship over and over I coulda shoulda woulda but didnt. I feel for you ladies it is hard and harder to connect with someone new. You are not alone in this one some days are better then others but like the song goes "aint no sunshine when shes gone" Melissa I miss you sooooo much I wish you would come back to me I pray for you everyday and I hope you are happy. Totally feel ya. I think pride gets in the way way too much. I'd just imagine how much simpler things can be if we just said what we were really feeling. Instead we have this hardened layer we wear called pride. I think my ex has a ton of that. I know he still has feelings...it's been so long...but I don't think anyone can just forget the way someone made you feel...I know I havent...it may sound crazy but I know in my heart my ex still deeply cares about me. It just wasn't the right timing:/ sucks. Really really sucks. We can only appreciate what we have right now at this very moment, because nothing lasts forever and as we know the best of things are sometimes taken from us:/ but at least I know I did everything to make it work and I know my ex will one day realize that he lost a good thing. A really good thing. 1
BC1980 Posted January 25, 2014 Posted January 25, 2014 It's been 9 months for me, and I still have moments of overwhelming sadness if I don't actively try to distract myself. I think the best thing is simply to divert your thoughts. I do still get hit with moments of grief. It's difficult to think about all the plans we had that will never come to pass now. Even though I doubt I could take him back, it's so hard to think about what we had. 1
RaidDolEm78 Posted January 25, 2014 Posted January 25, 2014 It will be 8 months tomorrow for me. And there are still rough days for me. But I have to push myself through them. It doesn't do me any good getting caught up in that. He is not the same person I believed he was throughout the relationship. In my situation, I truly believe he has major issues that he needs to address and sadly, I also believe he will never get that help. But, yes, I do still grieve for the future that never will be, and it sucks. But at least I have full control of what happens in my future because I am single...it is MY future and not OUR future.
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