Jimmieisajohnson Posted January 24, 2014 Posted January 24, 2014 Hey everyone, this is my first post on here and your advice would be much appreciated. so basically, my story goes like this. Me and this girl started talking, she was in a horrible, abusive relationship with a guy and had a kid with him. After about a month of talking, i went over to her house and we went on a sex binge for the whole weekend. we were crazy about each other. during the following week, we started going out and we started to get feelings for each other and fell in love with each other. she told me how amazing i was and we got into an exclusive relationship a week later. we started seeing each other everyday and we started moving really fast before we really knew each other and before we talked about our intentions and future. A month went by and things were really great. the next month things started to get sour. she started getting really stressed with her job, kid, and baby daddy. now my instincts started getting real bad, my stomach started getting really upset and queasy. i did something to lose her trust and she said she would give me a second chance and she still had feelings for me. and that she was in a relationship with me for the right reasons. The last few days she said she has been extremely overwhelmed with her life. and i guess i was just asking her to give me answers. tonight, she was ignoring my calls all day and finally called me back. long story short about tonight, she said she is so overwhelmed and she feels like she's in a relationship for the wrong reasons. "i do care about you, and i do love you, i just think we moved too fast and its scary for me" and i asked if she wanted to slow it down, and she said "slow as in dial up speed" and "i just really need to find myself" i feel sick and need help, opinions and advice to what everyone thinks about this. please let me know whats going on and what i should do. thank you everyone for your input! tl,dr went out with a girl for 2 months moved way too fast, girl wants to slow it down to "dial up speed". would like input thanks!
PegNosePete Posted January 24, 2014 Posted January 24, 2014 Well sorry to say bro, seems she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you any more. I would suggest you give her what she is asking for. Tell her you'll give her all the time she needs and when she's ready for a relationship she can give you a call. But don't hold your breath that that call will ever come.
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