Ladies, do you ever feel like just slapping a guy?

[bubbaganoosh]

I have two rules.

 

Rule#1 I don't hit you and you don't hit me.

 

Rule#2 You can't change rule#1.

 

In other word, keep your hands to yourself.

[aussietigerwolf]

I wouldn't have slapped you... However I would've told you exactly where you could shove that coffee and then broken up with you. I will not stand for being treated like a servant.

[MissBee]

I have wanted to strangle and slap many people, but I don't.

 

If you tickle me I will slap or kick you...it is a reflex. I warned a bf of mine about this, that I don't like being tickled and if you do it I won't be able to control my reflex, he didn't listen, insisted on it and got kicked in the face. Nothing was damaged but it was genuinely a complete reflex as I was reacting to being tickled. He never did it again. I did apologize profusely but also told him that this is what would happen and I can't help it so why do it.

 

During sex I may slap my guy or push his face.....it's not violent or painful, they seem to like it.

 

But besides that nope. I have never slapped or hit a man out of anger or to get a point across. I wouldn't do that.

Edited January 24, 2014 by MissBee

[whichwayisup]

Nope! Never would slap anybody, male or female.

 

The thing is, joking aside or not, you both have crossed a line..That line of respect. If and when there ever is a time you or your gf are upset/angry due to a fight or argument there's a pretty good chance a slap out of pure emotion is going to happen.

 

Stop poking and flicking her. Use your tongue instead!! Really, a joke is a joke but push someone too far, past a joke, things can change quickly into something not really intentionally into something bad.

[regine_phalange]

I have, but regretted it, and still regret it (I hate violence). Minutes after I found out he cheated, I just wanted to leave; but he grabbed me, held me up in the air and tried to kiss me (yeah, the on-air slap must have been a hilarious spectacle, -- all the story happened outside).

 

I forgot to add; he liked it (!) because that ensured him that I loved him (?). He also said I had a very heavy hand.

Edited January 24, 2014 by regine_phalange

[Fluttershy]

My husband cheated on me... And i never slapped his face... But I did slap a guys face once. He forcefully kissed me and I puhed him away and the slapped him. Total reflex because it was the only time I have ever done somethin like that. I didn't apologize. And I don't feel guilty about it.

 

A couple times slapping is not indicative of a problem IMO. But I lnew this girl who slapped and hit her boyfriend a lot. She was abusive and he took it. She flew at him on day and he pushed her away. She lost her balance and fell backwards over a chair. Thankfully enough of us were present she didn't press charges... But that day he stopped being a punching bag and dumped her. He realized that if he had been alone she could have ruined him. And she didn't think her slapping and hitting were a problem so there was nothing really to be done. I have no idea where she is now or whatnot but I seriously hope she never had kids!