DuvFeatherdRaven Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 2 and a half years and have always been in a long distance relationship. For the first 2 years, she was about 40 min away at a different high school. She is a grade ahead of me however and is now in college, 3 and a half hours away, while i finish my senior year. I plan to attend the same college as her next year. We talk on the phone every night and see each other about every 2 weeks. We had had a flawless relationship until at the end of october when she suprisingly and soberly made out with another guy. A week after it happened she told me. She says it was a mistake and we had some long conversations, and we still do. We tried to take a "break" but it only lasted one week because she didnt wanna do it anymore. Now we are back together and things are running smoothly for the most part. But she still goes out to parties almost every weekend, drinks, and dances with other guys. What should I do? Should i not have forgiven her? Should I just wait it out? Help. P.S. also, should I ask her more about this guy in her dorm? people dont suddenly make out with other people unless they are under some influence. There had to have been some build up, should i investigate?
Merin Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 Why would you think that people don't suddenly hook up with someone they've just met UNLESS they were under the influence? It happens all the time... She told you straight up she wasn't under the influence of alcohol (not that it would have been an excuse IMO anyway) so in some ways it seems that you are trying to give her an "out" and justify somehow what she did. Were you wrong in forgiving her... no I don't think so... You did what you felt was right for you at the time... Should you be worried... well IF her being curious about other guys and possibly hooking up with someone again is a concern for you here.. then yeah IMO you should be worried.. Sorry...
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