bigern21 Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 I have been talking to this girl for about 2 or 3 months now and I think things might be go south for me, so I need some opinoins. I have know this girl for year through a mutual friend and we also went to the same college where she is still attending. I asked her to go to a formal dance with me and she agreed and we had a great time. We did not get together util about 3 weeks later when I saw her at a bar up at school, we went home together and after that we would pretty much talk on the phone at least 2 or 3 times a week. I would stay with her every weekend when I went back to football games . She and I also stayed together on an out-of-town game and at her parents home while she was home visiting. During the X-mas holidays she did not call me for about two weeks because she was out of town and could not get in touch with me. Well, she finally called me two nights before new years eve and we talk for a while and planned to meet up the days after new years because we were both going to be in the same city. I stayed with her on one night of the trip and she asked me to come stay with her the next night back at school, so I did. After that is when things went downhill. I called her a day later and she did not call me back, then I went to the college last weekend to party and she said she might not go out, I later saw her out at the bar when I wasted. I know I was drunk, but too bad. No worse than she has been around me. Well, the next night I called her and she said she was sick and was not going out and in the middle of the conversation she said can I call you right back, she never called back. What should I do? It has been 4 days and I have not called neither has she. Is she done with me or What? Sould I call her or wait for her? I am going to visit some friends up at school this weekend and I don't know if I should call her or just wait to see her out. Everytime we were together before we had a great time and our telephone conversations were fine. Is she playing hard to get or what? Please someone response.
LucreziaBorgia Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 It sounds to me like she's ditching you, to be honest. There's a difference between playing 'hard to get' and outright giving excuses and lying in order to not be around someone. If you really want to push it though, you can call her and ask her directly what the deal is - but it doesn't sound too promising.
Author bigern21 Posted January 21, 2005 Author Posted January 21, 2005 Well I saw her last weekend at the bar and she told me that I had scared her the weekend before, when I saw her when I was so drunk. I told her I was sorry and everything seemed to be ok. While we were at the bar she and I went our seperate way to talk to people. After a while I just got tired of trying to follow her around, so I went and was talking to my ex girlfriend who I am still friends with. We talk for a while and I just kind of forgot about the other girl, It seemed like she was avoiding me. Then when the bar was closing she saw me walking towards the door with some friends and my ex. She walked by and seemed pissed off so I followed her out and asked her what was the matter, she told me that I could be with my ex or could be with her. She said call me later tonight and we will talk about this (it was about 2:00am) Well I did not call her and I have tried to call her back since then but she will not call me back. Is she just acting pissed off or does she care?
fundamental Posted January 21, 2005 Posted January 21, 2005 ***** I went and was talking to my ex girlfriend who I am still friends with.***** If she liked you, you scared her off by talking to your ex girlfriend. A lot of women have the mindset that men are players and should not be trusted... she maybe jumping to conclusions but it seems to me that she is backing off so that she does not develop feelings for you. It's either that or she has found someone else. fundamental
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