TaylorLane Posted January 25, 2014 Posted January 25, 2014 ...Yes totally! not NEEDING one, but having one because you WANT to, and the extra perks! lol 2
thecharade Posted January 26, 2014 Posted January 26, 2014 Lil, thanks for the update. Your thoughts/feelings are valid and healthy. I ended my A and never saw the BS as competition. She was ME! I felt for her, and that's why I ended the A. My exMM and I were different and did not think/feel similarly about things. His ability to compartmentalize and "want" both of us was a deal breaker for me. I knew no woman in his life would be safe. We were first loves, so we had history, but his ease of deception freaked me out. I'm still sad, though. Good luck, sweetie. Your deep thinking is good. Do the hard work, wherever it leads.
Author LilGirlandOW Posted February 2, 2014 Author Posted February 2, 2014 love updates!! I look forward to your posts because you always seem just a month or two ahead of my situation. And you're honest lol This time though, I have built in distractions/life growth set up so I don't focus too much on it, and I'm excited. Do you ever share these thoughts with your fMM or do they make you feel lonely? I'm almost scared how I will feel, even if we get that far... Thanks everyone, sorry for the late reply we just got back from a vacation, a much needed one. Over our holiday with so much time for just us, we've discussed alot and came back even more comfortable with our relationship and where things are heading. I hope you get what you're looking for in your relationship Sunset xoxox 1
Author LilGirlandOW Posted February 2, 2014 Author Posted February 2, 2014 And yes my fMM is not a Disney prince charming, but he's mine, lol 1
kalimata Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 So your MM is your boss? Whoa this is pretty scandilous. Do you think this is appropriate to continue on like this? If he means so much to you then why don't you quit and find another job? He will certainly be fired if it is find out that he's having an affair with a subordinate.
Author LilGirlandOW Posted February 5, 2014 Author Posted February 5, 2014 my MM was my boss for awhile which is where the A started, 6mnths into the A I did quit to protect his position, for the last year of the A he was not my boss.
EverySunset Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 my MM was my boss for awhile which is where the A started, 6mnths into the A I did quit to protect his position, for the last year of the A he was not my boss. How are things going? Are you kind of out in the open with him now? I feel like your fMMs STBXW was in an affair too. Has that come to light yet?
Speakingofwhich Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 How are things going? Are you kind of out in the open with him now? I feel like your fMMs STBXW was in an affair too. Has that come to light yet? Have also wondered about fMM STBXW.
Author LilGirlandOW Posted February 7, 2014 Author Posted February 7, 2014 fMM stbxW isnt looking back, i admire her greatly for this! She is generous as far as him seeing the kids goes. I think she had an exit affair and saw it through. She even has clandestine valentines day plans, I hope she gets spoiled by a man who will respect and adore her. 2
Speakingofwhich Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 fMM stbxW isnt looking back, i admire her greatly for this! She is generous as far as him seeing the kids goes. I think she had an exit affair and saw it through. She even has clandestine valentines day plans, I hope she gets spoiled by a man who will respect and adore her. Best case scenario! So fortunate for her, their kids and all involved.
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