Has anyone ever contacted the ex of your ex's new boyfriend or girlfriend?

[thegrouch]

If so how did it play out? Did you know the ex of your ex's new relationship? I've been fighting the urge to contact her through FB, but I think the cons outweigh the pros. I know my ex's new bf was only out of his previous relationship for a short time before he started talking to my ex behind my back then she left me for him.

 

I guess the answers I would be looking for is what ended the relationship. Its a long shot id get any answers but I feel like we have common ground since our exs are together.

 

I also wonder if she even knows. I guess I'm hoping for the one in a million chance that she didn't know, gets jealous and tries to get him back (successfully, lol)

 

Selfish and shady of me I know, that's why I'm looking for people that might have done something like this.

 

Don't know if I would want her back if they broke up, but her feeling my pain from getting left would be great, lol.

 

I know, I'm probably a bad person...and obviously haven't moved on completly.

[thegrouch]

I'm also aware if I contact, it could get back to my ex and her bf. But I'm just so curious as to what type of guy this is. Besides the type that hits on women with boyfriends.

[LiliesNoLilies]

No no. No no no.

 

Your ex girlfriend's new boyfriend's ex girlfriend has absolutely nothing to do with you!

I had to type that three times to get that correctly, that's how remote and random she is.

 

She might have some hazy answers as to why HER relationship ended - if even that. But you will gain nothing. You have to do this by yourself, mate.

 

No no no no no.

[pickflicker]

No no. No no no.

 

Your ex girlfriend's new boyfriend's ex girlfriend has absolutely nothing to do with you!

I had to type that three times to get that correctly, that's how remote and random she is.

 

She might have some hazy answers as to why HER relationship ended - if even that. But you will gain nothing. You have to do this by yourself, mate.

 

No no no no no.

 

I'd ignore this kind of contact if it visited me. Ick!

[veggirl]

Wtf you will look soooo crazy if you do that. Please don't.

[d0nnivain]

Why would you do that? This person doesn't want to hear from you. . . a complete stranger. You don't know why your EX's new SO broke up with their EX. Perhaps the person you are reaching out for dumped them & doesn't want them back.

 

 

If you have a small circle of friends & you want to commiserate together because you knew the person long before, maybe, but otherwise you look unbalanced. If I received such a request for contact I'd would never talk to you because I'd wonder if you were nuts. I might even be tempted to reach out to my EX to warn him that a crazy person was out there & his new GF ought to be careful.

[thegrouch]

Lol sorry guys. I was drunk last night, my ex's birthday is today...so I was experiencing some messed up emotions. I didn't do it. I know it only would have ended badly.

[Mondmellonw]

Well, that is weird.

The ex of the new date of my ex (or girlfriend, Idk) actually sent me a request on FB.

I did not accepted him and he removed it.

Thanks god you didn't do this, you'll look nuts.