Karasmatic Posted January 23, 2014 Posted January 23, 2014 My ex from 5, 6 years ago keeps trying to add me on Facebook. Once or twice, every year. I have started to notice. Not sure why. From what I see on public view it looks like he has a girlfriend. Poor girl. She is pretty to. The guy was a complete ******* to me so I don't know why he thinks I would ever want to keep in contact with him? The last message he sent me on Facebook was just one wanting to hook up again lol. Just ignored it. I have been in only one relationship since him (that did not work out) and pretty much single the rest of the time. Still very single now. Meanwhile. This guy that treated me really horribly, gets to be the one that gets the relationship with someone. Go figure! Just don't know how he gets away with it. Any thoughts to why he would want to add me as a friend? I am not going to do anything about it. Left the friend request sitting there this time. I usually just hit the ignore button. I do not want to give him a clean conscience about the way he treated me in the past. He does not deserve it. Could not care less what he does now. The only thing I am angry about regarding this, is that it just really gets to me when I see good things happening to bad people like him that's all. Rant over.
Emilia Posted January 23, 2014 Posted January 23, 2014 I would block him. He taunts you because he knows he can. There is a girl here in the office who once set the police on her ex because he wouldn't leave her alone and he still keeps messaging her on linkedin sometimes because she responds. They had an abusive relationship. If they get the whiff that they can get a rise out of you, they will pester you. Block him. 1
Author Karasmatic Posted January 23, 2014 Author Posted January 23, 2014 The funny thing is I have only ever responded once years ago. Just ignore him now yet he still keeps trying to add me even though I ignore him. Do find it good amusement though. I always laugh when I see his name pop up. Yeah decided to block him this time. If he finds his way around that. Wonder what that say about him. Shakes head.
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