lsb Posted January 23, 2014 Posted January 23, 2014 I really need advice. I am pretty much the most clueless person when it comes to dating. I have barely dated. And the experiences I have had were not good. I am 30 years old and the longest relationship I have had was six months. I am very shy and get anxiety. So, I met this guy in 2005 while on vacation. We live 2 hours away from each other. We hung out one time and nothing happened. And a couple years later, we hung out again and nothing happened. Both times it was pretty awkward. We have kept in touch now and then through email. So I emailed him lately and now he just brought up about how we should date. But I haven't seen him in like 5 years. And it's like he wants me to decide right now. I don't know what to do.
Author lsb Posted January 23, 2014 Author Posted January 23, 2014 I don't know. How am I supposed to know that? I mean I feel like I barely know him.
PegNosePete Posted January 23, 2014 Posted January 23, 2014 And you think *we* know the answer?! We don't know him at all! Do you think he's worth getting to know?
chicaboom Posted January 23, 2014 Posted January 23, 2014 Go for it girl! You're not a teenager anymore, what have you got to lose? You're 30 and an adult and you need to take that risk. What does one date hurt? One date does not mean that you have to be his girlfriend. You're not committing to anything. The worst that can happen is that you end up not liking him (or vice versa) but it's not so bad. If anything it might get you back in the game and want to see what else is out there! GO FOR IT you have absolutely nothing to lose. If you keep on being shy and scared you will be alone for quite some time. Nothing ventured nothing gained!
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