New guy ,Moving on and now i laugh at things my ex does.

[crazybestie101]

It's been relieving few months , have been talking to other guys and got lot of attention but among these guys there was one guy hidden , i didn't know he will catch my attention. I met him in new year party via roommates ,he happen to be my neighbor haha.. i added him on facebook that night but real communication started when i wished him on his bday . from then we have been talking for 2-3 hours whenever we get chance. Most of time him talking about his life with all tiny details. He is very shy guy , so he doesnt ask me anything about my life in that detail he just listen what i have to say.

 

But he gives out lot of his views on how he wants spend his life. We even have " commitment & marriage " discussion on third meeting. Came out that our views are similar on it.Our roommates definitely think that there is something up between us. But i have many concerns regarding this. First i feel like we talk too much like so many hours.Well , we still have plenty of talks left over but still. Last guy ended up telling i needed too much attention since we used to talk for long hours. I dont want it to happen here. I miss connection that i had with my ex , me and my ex clicked in many levels on first night.We had so much common , we were each others mind reader. This new guy is very different person , we hardly have something similar.

 

But i guess we happen to meet so we are going on with this. I also think that may be me and our roommates are reading in too much. May be he doesnt feel anything like that and he is just talking to me . In that case i am fine as well. I just dont want to repeat same mistakes , story and regrets again. I just wonder why would guy talk to me long hours and when to he knows that everyone will know about it. Why he would discuss his life details with me ?Sometime i feel like i text him so much that he ignores it( I hate that). I think i should just hold on.. And yes of course in midst of all , i kinda think very less about my ex. Surely , i do miss him but he is just distant memory now.

 

His bday and our anniversary coming up , i am not doing anything. i just came to know that just to get me off his mind , he dated / talked 2 girls for few weeks and got back to his single life. He just bought new car so i guess he is living up his single life. Honestly , whatever he does , i feel it to be stupid and i just laugh at it.

 

Now i have realized my self worth so much that i would never give my second to such guy. He has lost all respect and he is possibly dead for me.. Some one please advice me on this new guy ..

Edited January 23, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator

[chris21422]

Don't rush with the new guy too much. Be cool, continue living your life.. Things will just happen if you don't expect it to happen..

 

Continue being happy with yourself. You will know if he's the right guy for you when you don't ask questions anymore you will just feel it.