MarilynMonroe Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 Looks aren't all that matter. I dated a guy that everyone, including my mom, thought was ugly. I knew he wasn't the best looking guy, but we got a long great and had a lot of fun together. And we had the best sex ever, but in the end it didn't work because he cheated!!! Can u believe it? An ugly guy cheated on Marilyn? lol But anyway, my point is that looks are not all that matter because I'd rather have an ugly person who I get along with and has a great personality than a GQ model who thinks he's God's gift to everybody and has no personality. And I was not ashamed to take my ugly guy out in public because it didn't matter to me what he looked like. That's so superficial.
Mustard Bomb Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 Originally posted by VirginiaBob Puh-lease! I used to be this "nice guy" that supposedly all you women want, yea right! Women don't want the good-looking guy who goes to church with a good job who treats women well. They want the dropout biker or the unemployed alchoholic who is more of a challenge. Hey, you women can complain all you want about what I'm doing, but the truth is that you made men to start being jerks out of necessity. O, I see. You're evidently a plant from the How-to-Get-Chicks-and-STDs crowd. Well, let me know when your conversion begins and where to get the enstudifying snake oil. Infomercials from the desperate and pathetic are quite fun to watch.
alphamale Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 Originally posted by MarilynMonroe Looks aren't all that matter. That's so superficial. This is written by someone with a user ID of MARILYNMONROE along with a picture of her as an avatar.
moimeme Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 Funny, I just made a post about my handsome ex who lasted 4 minutes in bed I had a brother-in-law who was a hunkorama - at least according to my friends and their friends; he wasn't my type at all. But women absolutely drooled over this guy. I got to know one of his girlfriends. Apparently, he was boring as hell in bed and not even all that much interested in sex (and this girl was HOT so it wasn't about her). Women don't want the good-looking guy who goes to church with a good job who treats women well. They want the dropout biker or the unemployed alchoholic who is more of a challenge. I was everything my wife hoped to find in a man and then some. And after five years of marriage and treating her like a queen I got tossed aside for her little grade school / High School crush who got in her pants and then lost interest. And even though her entire family warned her what he was about and that she was a fool for not realizing what she had, she went ahead and did it anyway. So my incentive for being a nice guy in the future is what exactly? Another example is all the women on here talking about thier relationships with married men. Oh, yea, the women in here flocking to cheating men are the perfect example of women wanting nice guys (sarcasm intended). Well here's the thing. Intelligence is highly prized as a quality. Intelligent people do not use anecdotal experiences to create unfair and untrue generalizations about vast numbers of people. Intelligent people are able to take realistic stock of themselves and of situations and draw conclusions that are not fallacious. They may, in the short run, allow emotions to rule their choices, but after thoughtful reflection, they then make reasoned choices. So you fellows who think you are such geniuses for taking your bitterness at your lack of luck in the world of romance and turning that into a resolve to behave like utter jerks by that very decision make yourselves undesirable. You keep talking about all your dates, and some women may be dumb enough to fall for the jerk act, but the most you'll get is dates. You'll neither get nor keep a long-term relationship. Now, the smart men will figure out what it was that drew them to women who were not ideal and what they may have done to contribute to the failed relationships and then resolve to be smarter about their choices in future rather than concluding that 'women don't like nice guys, therefore I will be an @$$'. So good luck with that, boys.
tiki Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 Go Moi! Go Moi! It's your birfday! Amen, sista. Preach that jive! Tell 'em how it is!
Author VirginiaBob Posted January 13, 2005 Author Posted January 13, 2005 Despite all these arguments from women on this message about how they really do like nice guys and all the supposed examples they give, it doesn't work that way in real life, and you know it.
tiki Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 I'd rather have a nice guy anyday. But the thing is, BV, be yourself! If you're naturally a jackass, then so be it. As long as you're being true to yourself!
savethedrama4allama Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 Originally posted by VirginiaBob Despite all these arguments from women on this message about how they really do like nice guys and all the supposed examples they give, it doesn't work that way in real life, and you know it. Oh yeah? Is that why YOU admit you are "lonely" and dating this girl is the only way for you to get sex? If women like jerks, you should have plenty of dates.
katie79 Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 That's a rotten thing to say. Maybe in your eyes, she's not attractive, but to a more worthy person of her time, maybe she's pretty. This is just your opinion. Being that you went through the trouble to go on a message board and present this to the world about one measely date, shows how immature you really are. If she's so "fugly" why are you going through the trouble to write a forum on her in the first place. If you were so unattracted, why are you wasting your time discussing here and taking her out? If you want sex badly, go play with yourself Saturday night instead of wasting this poor woman's time. Maybe you're a beast too? You know what they say, "It takes one, to know one".
alphamale Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 excellent post V.B. ....see how the females come out to attack and verbally molest you? These same females will literally go to their grave professing their high moral and idealistic standards. Unfortunately, when it comes to day-to-day life they throw all these standards out the window and do whatever they FEEL like doing.
Pocky Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 Originally posted by VirginiaBob Oh yea, like as if 80% of the women on here haven't had a one-night-stand with a guy who was into her. So many discussion on here from women about "meaningless sex", like as if there is such a thing. Puh-lease! I used to be this "nice guy" that supposedly all you women want, yea right! Women don't want the good-looking guy who goes to church with a good job who treats women well. They want the dropout biker or the unemployed alchoholic who is more of a challenge. Hey, you women can complain all you want about what I'm doing, but the truth is that you made men to start being jerks out of necessity. If you want to attract trash, then be trash. (I've never had a one-night stand)
tiki Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 Originally posted by tiki VB, would you date her even if her body wasn't great? Hey BillyBob, how bout an answer?
Groovy Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 O.K, stop with your argument girls don't want to meet nice guys. I just joined a church with 10,000 people to pray and in hopes that I'd be chosen to meet a man with morals. It's the only social networking I do anymore aside from sport leagues I participate in, a lot more rarely. When some women say they want like nice guys, they mean it. Sure some may say that and go to bars to meet them but I say we are all not like that.
tiki Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale excellent post V.B. Are you two brothers?!
Pocky Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 Originally posted by moimeme Well here's the thing. Intelligence is highly prized as a quality. Intelligent people do not use anecdotal experiences to create unfair and untrue generalizations about vast numbers of people. Intelligent people are able to take realistic stock of themselves and of situations and draw conclusions that are not fallacious. They may, in the short run, allow emotions to rule their choices, but after thoughtful reflection, they then make reasoned choices. So you fellows who think you are such geniuses for taking your bitterness at your lack of luck in the world of romance and turning that into a resolve to behave like utter jerks by that very decision make yourselves undesirable. You keep talking about all your dates, and some women may be dumb enough to fall for the jerk act, but the most you'll get is dates. You'll neither get nor keep a long-term relationship. Now, the smart men will figure out what it was that drew them to women who were not ideal and what they may have done to contribute to the failed relationships and then resolve to be smarter about their choices in future rather than concluding that 'women don't like nice guys, therefore I will be an @$$'. So good luck with that, boys. Nice post, Moi. I am of the same opinion.
savethedrama4allama Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale excellent post V.B. ....see how the females come out to attack and verbally molest you? These same females will literally go to their grave professing their high moral and idealistic standards. Unfortunately, when it comes to day-to-day life they throw all these standards out the window and do whatever they FEEL like doing. Alpha, it speaks for itself. If women like jerks, why is he having problems finding a date? Why does he have to date someone he doesn't find attractive for lack of choice?
Author VirginiaBob Posted January 13, 2005 Author Posted January 13, 2005 "Alpha, it speaks for itself. If women like jerks, why is he having problems finding a date? Why does he have to date someone he doesn't find attractive for lack of choice?" Who says I'm having problems finding dates? She is the 7th woman I've dated since my ex-fiance left me on Dec. 3rd (and in that relationship, I was the nice guy). I'm dating other women right now also. Had a few 2nd and 3rd dates already. Believe me, my schedule is full. But even then, yes I'm still lonely because I was expecting to be a husband and a father at this point if my ex didn't leave me weeks before the wedding. So right now, I'm just out having fun and meeting as many people as possible, despite what they look like.
tiki Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 Maybe she was only available for tonight (a Thursday night) because she's got a hot date tomorrow night with a good looking, rich man? Named Fabio.
Pocky Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale excellent post V.B. ....see how the females come out to attack and verbally molest you? These same females will literally go to their grave professing their high moral and idealistic standards. Unfortunately, when it comes to day-to-day life they throw all these standards out the window and do whatever they FEEL like doing. The sad thing is that I actually think you're an intelligent guy with a great personality AM, but you use this board as a way to play a role. It's unfortunate that you think that your LS personality benefits the community we have here, when your true personality would be so much more enlightening and appreciated. Your posts have a common theme about them - so much so that it's extremely apparent that you respond with a persona instead of truly responding with what you think. Why you waste yourself with this I have no idea. It's such a shame, AM because I really think you'd find it more fulfilling to know that you're giving advice that helps people instead of giving advice that is intended to fashion the egotistical, sardonic, woman-hating image you strive so hard to have. I like our banter when you're not acting. When you do this, you're boring and mediocre.
savethedrama4allama Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 Originally posted by VirginiaBob Depressed and needing sex. You said it yourself.
Mustard Bomb Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale excellent post V.B. ....see how the females come out to attack and verbally molest you? These same females will literally go to their grave professing their high moral and idealistic standards. Unfortunately, when it comes to day-to-day life they throw all these standards out the window and do whatever they FEEL like doing. Now, offer him your favourite book and some personal lessons on how to be a proper pick-up artist; then we'll witness him becoming submissive to your 'philosophy' and getting much more action...I can't wait. This is like watching John Edwards, only sleazier!
alphamale Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 Originally posted by savethedrama4yrmama Alpha, it speaks for itself. If women like jerks, why is he having problems finding a date? Why does he have to date someone he doesn't find attractive for lack of choice? Well, women do it all the time. They may date a guy cause he drives a 'vette or cause he pays for everything or cause he lives in the "right" part of town, even if they are not that physically attracted to him. So what? Most of us have done it at some time. I've dated women I was not that physically attracted to cause maybe they had some other redeeming quality (like large boobz )
tiki Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 Originally posted by Mustard Bomb Now, offer him your favourite book and some personal lessons on how to be a proper pick-up artist; then we'll witness him becoming submissive to your 'philosophy' and getting much more action...I can't wait. This is like watching John Edwards, only sleazier! Just for the record, are you a male or female?
tiki Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 lol...yeah, I thought it'd be cool of you to be saying all this if you were a male...lol...wishful thinkin'. Carry on.
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