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Lol. Funny, I just made a post about my handsome ex who lasted 4 minutes in bed. The guy I dated a for a year who was bald, had a tummy and back hair now he was great! :D

Posted
Originally posted by Barby

Hire a hooker! :rolleyes: Maybe it's a pity date (maybe you're Fugly to her as well)?!

 

Sure. What a GREAT idea Barby, maybe it can even be a child prostitute for maximum exploitation.

 

 

Virginia Bob, I think that if you like her you'll soon see her as less fugly. If you just want to hump and run, be CLEAR about that's what you want and turn the lights off.

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Originally posted by Groovy

Lol. Funny, I just made a post about my handsome ex who lasted 4 minutes in bed. The guy I dated a for a year who was bald, had a tummy and back hair now he was great! :D

 

I'll tell you honestly GROOVY, the best sex I have encountered was with pretty avg looking women. The good looking ones just lay there like a dead fish thinking the world owes them everything just cause they are cute. :laugh::p I'm not kidding here.

 

The best lay I ever had was about 6 yrs ago. She had a nice face but was maybe 25 lbs heavy but this woman could f***k, OMG. No inhibitions whatsoever. I mean everything, swallowed, anal, tittie f***k, everyting. I was a ONS but I still think of her and her tallents to this day. woooo hooo..

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Originally posted by Mr Spock

Virginia Bob, I think that if you like her you'll soon see her as less fugly. If you just want to hump and run, be CLEAR about that's what you want and turn the lights off.

 

 

f***K THAT MR SPOCK,

 

V.B. you shoueld lie thru your teeth, tell her she is so beautiful and that you like her personality and think she is funny. Tell her you are looking for LTR and then get her hammered and then "hump & run". :p

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Oh, please, what's the big deal? What is she were really pretty but stupid? Wouldn't you still have gone out with her only to hump her?

 

I say looks are irrelevant to men. They want to bang almost everything!

 

I think this thread is a pure thread of non-discrimination. Why should only pretty girls have to put up with this?

 

(Mr. Spock, you scaaare me!!!!)

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I am NOT scary.

 

 

I still say if Virgin Bob takes her out on a date and just wants to hump n run that he be HONEST. Ugly people need sex too, and if he strikes out who cares? He can go home and masturbate to porn like 98 percent of single guys out there.

 

 

hardi har har

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Like Mr. Spock said, at least have the decency to be honest with her.

 

 

I'm actually going out with this girl, despite her looks.

 

:rolleyes: It's NOT like you are doing her a favor, you know?

 

Also, you said she has a great body, so you can't really say you don't care about looks, can you? :rolleyes:

I bet a lot of men would not call this lady "ugly".

 

 

I hope she doesn't find you interesting enough to have sex with you.

Posted

Well, i guess we just found out why virginiabob is single........there is more depth in a teaspoon of milk.

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Oh yea, like as if 80% of the women on here haven't had a one-night-stand with a guy who was into her. So many discussion on here from women about "meaningless sex", like as if there is such a thing. Puh-lease! I used to be this "nice guy" that supposedly all you women want, yea right! Women don't want the good-looking guy who goes to church with a good job who treats women well. They want the dropout biker or the unemployed alchoholic who is more of a challenge. Hey, you women can complain all you want about what I'm doing, but the truth is that you made men to start being jerks out of necessity.

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but the truth is that you made men to start being jerks out of necessity.

 

 

 

ok, no offence intended here Bob, but you seem to be doing a great job of this all by yourself.

 

it is, however, interesting that you admit to being a jerk now rather than, just doing the girl a favour by taking her out.

 

just keep one thing in mind when you are feeding her the BS, and "sinking the pink" (to coin a phrase from spock)......this girl does have feelings, she probably also has about the same amount of self esteem as you, and in the morning shes going to feel just like you did when you first posted on this site. one more guy using her as a piece of meat may just be enough to tip her over the edge.

 

 

hey, maybe she will post here in a couple of days "i went on a date, he told me all the right things, we had sex, he was gone in the morning, i feel empty and worthless" and with a bit of luck she will add........."he couldnt hold a conversation, he was boring, he had an attitude the size of calcutta, and he wasnt even that good in bed"

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"ok, no offence intended here Bob, but you seem to be doing a great job of this all by yourself."

 

Myself, like many others, wasn't always this way. I have become this way out of necessity and so that I am not the used one. It is much better to be in the position of using someone rather than being on the other side.

 

"and with a bit of luck she will add........."he couldnt hold a conversation, he was boring, he had an attitude the size of calcutta, and he wasnt even that good in bed"'

 

Exactly, my point, women are so hypocritical - nitpicking every detail they can find wrong with men, but as soon as men say one bad thing about a woman, it's "to arms!"

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Got to agree with Bob on the women make men jerks thing. I was everything my wife hoped to find in a man and then some. And after five years of marriage and treating her like a queen I got tossed aside for her little grade school / High School crush who got in her pants and then lost interest. And even though her entire family warned her what he was about and that she was a fool for not realizing what she had, she went ahead and did it anyway. So my incentive for being a nice guy in the future is what exactly?

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thats not "nit-picking" Bob, im just saying that in the event that you treat this girl, who i am sure is a lovely person in her own right, like crap, then i hope she sees the bad points of the person involved rather than blame herself for allowing herself to be used by a guy that was only looking to satisfy his own personal urge.

 

 

 

and just so that you know, nitpicking is more along the lines of........he doesnt put the toilet seat down, he leaves the lid off the toothpaste ~ petty minor things that shouldnt matter if everything else is going well.

 

 

I have become this way out of necessity and so that I am not the used one. It is much better to be in the position of using someone rather than being on the other side.

 

 

 

this makes you sound extremely bitter, and it may be better to deal with your own issues, before creating new ones for someone else.

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Got to agree with Bob on the women make men jerks thing. I was everything my wife hoped to find in a man and then some.

 

 

cant you guys see that nice guys are hard to come by, and that the the wives/girlfriends that played you are the ones that lose out??

 

 

you shouldnt change into something that you are NOT, it wont mean you get treated any better.

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"cant you guys see that nice guys are hard to come by, and that the the wives/girlfriends that played you are the ones that lose out??"

 

No, we lose out more, because while we have friends who have always been jerks to women, thier wives or girlfriends love them to death because they are a challenge. So here I am, 28 years old, not married or with kids (yea, I sure didn't lose out, whatever) like all these other guys I know because I was the "nice guy" all these years. I was always too easy to figure out - you know, the good looking, church going, hard working, and good-intentions, emotionally and financially used guy. I have friends that already have a couple of wonderful kids and wives that adore them and they are definitely not the nice guys. Who lost out by being nice? Me. The sad part is that looking at these boards, all you see is women who say, "He is such a wonderful person, but I'm bored with my husband, thinking of cheating", etc. Yea, these nice guys lost too. If they were a challenge, thier wives wouldn't be bored.

 

 

"you shouldnt change into something that you are NOT, it wont mean you get treated any better."

 

Yes it will, I have experimented a little since my ex-fiance left me and the worse that I treat a women, the better I get treated by her. It is so obvious. You can always argue that I will be able to look back at my life and say, "at least i did things the right way". But being alone and not ever getting to have the joy of children, who cares if I did things the right way.

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Women don't make men jerks, men don't make women bitches.

They are all do-it-yourself types.

 

It's always a *choice* to act as a jerk/bitch or as a nice person.

 

If someone you love treats you badly and *you* decide that this gives you the right to treat like sh*t your next partner, you are contributing to spreading the "jerk" virus.

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Another example is all the women on here talking about thier relationships with married men. Oh, yea, the women in here flocking to cheating men are the perfect example of women wanting nice guys (sarcasm intended).

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Originally posted by VirginiaBob

"cant you guys see that nice guys are hard to come by, and that the the wives/girlfriends that played you are the ones that lose out??"

 

No, we lose out more, because while we have friends who have always been jerks to women, thier wives or girlfriends love them to death because they are a challenge. So here I am, 28 years old, not married or with kids (yea, I sure didn't lose out, whatever) like all these other guys I know because I was the "nice guy" all these years. I was always too easy to figure out - you know, the good looking, church going, hard working, and good-intentions, emotionally and financially used guy. I have friends that already have a couple of wonderful kids and wives that adore them and they are definitely not the nice guys. Who lost out by being nice? Me. The sad part is that looking at these boards, all you see is women who say, "He is such a wonderful person, but I'm bored with my husband, thinking of cheating", etc. Yea, these nice guys lost too. If they were a challenge, thier wives wouldn't be bored.

 

 

"you shouldnt change into something that you are NOT, it wont mean you get treated any better."

 

Yes it will, I have experimented a little since my ex-fiance left me and the worse that I treat a women, the better I get treated by her. It is so obvious. You can always argue that I will be able to look back at my life and say, "at least i did things the right way". But being alone and not ever getting to have the joy of children, who cares if I did things the right way.

 

 

 

 

i have but two words to say......anger management.

Posted
Originally posted by Adunaphel

Women don't make men jerks, men don't make women bitches.

They are all do-it-yourself types.

 

It's always a *choice* to act as a jerk/bitch or as a nice person.

 

:rolleyes::laugh::p

 

...sometimes it is not one's *choice*

Posted
Originally posted by alphamale

...sometimes it is not one's *choice*

 

True, sometimes people can't even afford it. :bunny:

 

(I'm stopping now) :p

Posted

VB, would you date her even if her body wasn't great?

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I don't think that her ugliness could ever be as sad

as your desire to date someone you don't like and have nothing good to say about

because you're lonely and you can't get laid any other way.

Posted
Originally posted by Adunaphel

If someone you love treats you badly and *you* decide that this gives you the right to treat like sh*t your next partner, you are contributing to spreading the "jerk" virus.

 

That's why it's important to rid yourself of any emotional baggage. I don't think VB has given himself enough time to grieve the loss of his relationship. He thinks he's on the road to recovery because he has immediently jumped back into the saddle - dating non-stop. I think there's alot of anger and bitterness that needs to be worked through first...right now he's intent on 'balancing the scales', it's unfair, and disrespectful to the women he is dating.

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Originally posted by VirginiaBob

Oh yea, like as if 80% of the women on here haven't had a one-night-stand with a guy who was into her. So many discussion on here from women about "meaningless sex", like as if there is such a thing. Puh-lease! I used to be this "nice guy" that supposedly all you women want, yea right! Women don't want the good-looking guy who goes to church with a good job who treats women well. They want the dropout biker or the unemployed alchoholic who is more of a challenge. Hey, you women can complain all you want about what I'm doing, but the truth is that you made men to start being jerks out of necessity.

 

What a load of bull! Sorry man, I've never had a one-night-stand, never pined for the dropout or alcoholic. Don't throw some blanket statement over ME so that you can feel justified.

 

I like nice guys. BTW, I'm fine too. Back to the drawing board for your life theory.

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