gill17 Posted January 22, 2014 Posted January 22, 2014 I hadn't seen my ex or spoken to her for over 6 months, and was more than content with my life. However, on a recent night out, she was also there. We both ignored each other and stayed out of each others way, until I was at the bar by myself, which is when she came over to speak. We gave each other a cuddle and as we were cuddling, she kissed me on my neck. We got talking and were talking about Christmas/New Year etc when out of the blue she said "I think about you all the time". I was a bit taken aback by this given the fact we hadn't spoken in so long, and the fact that she is now with someone else. My reply was, "look, we had a good time when we were together, but obviously just weren't meant to be" and her response was "well, I don't know, you tell me." We talked further, just general chit chat, but she would keep grabbing onto me on the dancefloor, or following me around the club wanting to dance/offering to buy me drinks etc. I left, and probably naively thought she would be in contact, but I haven't heard from her since. I do miss her and care for her, so the whole conversation has thrown me. What were her intentions? Could this possibly just be her way of getting into my head again or does she sound genuine?
Xemyd Posted January 22, 2014 Posted January 22, 2014 I'd say she was probably just drunk. She was comfortable with you once, it's easy to fall back into that, especially when drunk. 1
Author gill17 Posted January 22, 2014 Author Posted January 22, 2014 but don't they say words spoken when drunk are true feelings?
AllTooWell Posted January 23, 2014 Posted January 23, 2014 but don't they say words spoken when drunk are true feelings? lol, maybe if they're 18 and this is there first beer. people say **** that means NOTHING when they are drunk. not just that - but she didn't say anything, anyway. she didn't say she wanted you back, she just said she thinks about you YOU yourself have said the key parts about this: she's with someone else.
chris21422 Posted January 23, 2014 Posted January 23, 2014 Man imagine she has a boyfriend and she's flirting with you and kissing you on the neck. What she did there, there's nothing to read about. She's a woman bro she just wants attention thats their nature.. Once she get that attention that she wanted that will make her feel better she will be long gone..
Eau Claire Posted January 23, 2014 Posted January 23, 2014 Quite the catch. Drunk girl in a bar. Disloyal to her current boyfriend. Wow...you sure have high standards.
MrMeh Posted January 23, 2014 Posted January 23, 2014 Hey Gill! Looks like you are posting about the same girl again and wondering about her, which is a mistake. Let's take a step back :you broke up on the basis of cheating rumors, she was apathetic about getting you back, and now she is teasing you when she has a boyfriend. I understand you felt strongly for her but please have some integrity! What would you tell me if I came to you with your problems? Would you tell me to keep thinking about her?
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