broken11 Posted January 22, 2014 Posted January 22, 2014 yesterday night i went out to dinner with a friend of mine, while sitting there i saw my ex walking down going home from work i guess, i looked up he was looking.. walked and looked again .. then kept walking! i got shaken up at the beginning,,, wondering why did he not say hello and why would he act like this when we were together for 3 years and yet again he broke up with me for a silly reason. I'm trying to understand how dumpers think? why would he act like I'm a stranger?
purplehues Posted January 22, 2014 Posted January 22, 2014 Trying to be inside someone else's head is exhausting--I know, I've been trying to deconstruct every move my ex made since she left me 2 days ago. And I've got nothing. I think it was actually nice that he did that and respects you enough to let you heal. I mean, he left you and starting a conversation with you would not be okay (unless he wanted to get back together maybe?) I dunno…but I do know that people think differently, hurt differently, move on differently... I like to think that if I ever left someone, I would let that person be and would have walked past as well. It's only fair, you know? I'm so sorry you're hurting join the club! 1
Author broken11 Posted January 22, 2014 Author Posted January 22, 2014 Trying to be inside someone else's head is exhausting--I know, I've been trying to deconstruct every move my ex made since she left me 2 days ago. And I've got nothing. I think it was actually nice that he did that and respects you enough to let you heal. I mean, he left you and starting a conversation with you would not be okay (unless he wanted to get back together maybe?) I dunno…but I do know that people think differently, hurt differently, move on differently... I like to think that if I ever left someone, I would let that person be and would have walked past as well. It's only fair, you know? I'm so sorry you're hurting join the club! i know what you mean. it just that i can't believe that we spent such 3 years together and he couldn't even wave at me. i felt like we never knew each other and it hurts. I'm so sorry ur hurting too. i know its only been 2 day and its really confusing right now.. but it only gets better.
Zahara Posted January 22, 2014 Posted January 22, 2014 I'm not sure why you have expectations. The guy dumped you over the phone and then deleted you from his social media. He's deleting you from his life and honestly, when someone breaks up with you, they are essentially eliminating you from their life. He did you a huge favor because even a wave at this point, being as emotional and attached as you are, would have made you analyze and question. It's always best to cut the cord and move on. And yes, there is nothing else you can be to each other but strangers -- after a break-up. 1
pickflicker Posted January 22, 2014 Posted January 22, 2014 Because there's no point. The relationship is done. The door is closed. I'd make polite conversation if forced, but given the chance to keep walking, I just... keep walking. 1
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