songbyrd Posted January 22, 2014 Posted January 22, 2014 So today makes day 16 of my NC and my ex has used everything in the book to get me to talk to him. He stopped for the past week and then started again today. Check it out: 10:02am Hey i know u dont wanna hear from me, just wanted to say thanks about the w2 thing..and also ive been getting calls from the school here and there..you should probably remove my number...take care. 10:08am Hope you're well. 10:46am Do you still have that hard drive? let me know something please 11:20am You know, you'd think with all the time we spent together, you'd at least tell me something and want me to be happy. I hope you do find your happy place, if you haven't already..dont wish no bad on you. I wish you could at least tell me that much, then i'd know it wasn't all pointless. If you have the hard drive hit me up, if not..be good be happy..be full of life yo..and dont be angry with life. Take care.. He also started following me on my music page(we are both recording artists) from a new account and the account is named under a project we made together when we were still together. Funny, ain't it?
purplehues Posted January 22, 2014 Posted January 22, 2014 Hey songbyrd, Who left whom? I wish mine would reach out…and then I don't…and then I do… But I very much admire your courage in staying away from him. It's day 2 of NC for me--yikes. 1
Author songbyrd Posted January 22, 2014 Author Posted January 22, 2014 Hey songbyrd, Who left whom? I wish mine would reach out…and then I don't…and then I do… But I very much admire your courage in staying away from him. It's day 2 of NC for me--yikes. He broke up with me. You can read my story in the thread "Day 15 of NC". What is ur story? I believe most do throw breadcrumbs. It does make me feel better, but after awhile it becomes unfulfilling. What u really want is for them to be genuinely sorry and do whatever it takes to win u back. I'm not at all tempted to reply to him because he's still at a stage where he would only be trying to keep me on the back burner and that will set me back to square 1. I deal with enough pain as it is! Right now I need to heal while allowing him to suffer the consequences of his actions...and I can only hope he will get his crap together. Stay strong hun, u r at the beginning...u will get ur crumbs when ur ready.
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