danny8630 Posted January 12, 2005 Posted January 12, 2005 i just posted another post just now. Anyway, im relatively new to relationships and currently am still in my first rather serious relationship. I have a huge weakness and that is talking about things that may upset either party and closing them with some closure and not a huge feeling of ...cant think of the word...oh well, bad feelings that may lead to a break up. for those who are experienced in a relationship. How do you save a relationship when topics come up that may ruin it?
tattoomytoe Posted January 12, 2005 Posted January 12, 2005 like what kind ofd conversation? pertaining to what?
Author danny8630 Posted January 12, 2005 Author Posted January 12, 2005 well anything, Nothing too light, but nothing too dramatic for example: too light would be something like "why are your walls a light green?" //////im not the best example person//// too harsh would definately be : I think you need to lose weight how about i just give you my situation? she claims that everytime she tells me she is doing something without me, the first thing i think about is guys and that she is going to do something. We had this big talk and both of us are upset about it, i cant figure out how to end it even on a positive note except for saying im an a**h*** and a jerk. it disturbs me since there is no decent ending that there is still problems
tattoomytoe Posted January 12, 2005 Posted January 12, 2005 those are your feelings. sorry that you cannot help that you are jealous and somewhat insevure about her. i would be too if i had a gf that worked at a strip club...even if she is just a waitress. you have told her your feelings before, they are not new, so wht should you have to explain and try and justify what you feel to her, you do not. i do think you should find someone that respects your feelings. someone who will enjoy taking you with her and some one you want to go out with. it just does not sound like you and your gf have very much in common....at least not right now. maybe you should look for a new gf.
Author danny8630 Posted January 12, 2005 Author Posted January 12, 2005 we are different, we believe in some things together, more so we have different opinions. She says she doesnt understand me and why i do things? i dont understand me either
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