msalek89 Posted January 22, 2014 Posted January 22, 2014 My ex and I broke up a year ago. Months we would talk and some other we would. He always initiated contact, I never did. Last year for around 1 month we started hanging out and engaging in having sex. Somehow we knew that all we were doing was just having sex. However, I still felt something for him so I decided to let him know (put my heart on the line one more time) what I was feeling. I guess he disliked me asking and got upset. He told me he was confused and I told him that there is nothing to be confused about, either we are together or not. He kept texting and calling but I decided to not answer. Weeks later he text me saying he wanted to talk. I told him that if he wanted to talk then to talk, he said it had to be in person. I ignored him for a couple of days more until he asked me to go see him to talk. I guess I knew what I was getting myself into but I still decided to go. I feel like hope is always taking the best of me. So I got there, I asked him to talk and he told me he missed me. Then he hugged me and told me about his day. A few more minutes passed and I asked him again what he wanted to talk and he said the he just wanted to see how I was doing since I have been ignoring him. I felt stupid but didn't show my emotions so I told him I just had to go. He asked me to stay and I said no. As soon as I left his apartment I blocked his number. I didn't want to know anything about him. 3 months have passed and he has tried to add me on different social networks but I always delete him. Also, I have his cousins were adding me and I decline them as well. He finally got a hold of me on this messenger app. He text me saying hey, how are you, multiple times but I did not answer. Finally, on Saturday he text me saying hey and I decided to text back. I told him that I would really appreciate it if he stop texting me. He said serious? And I said yes. Then on Sunday he text me saying why are you saying that and I told him because you and I don’t have anything to talk about so I prefer that you leave me alone. He read the message and didn't text back. I am hoping that he got the message. I am just disturbed and annoyed with him texting me. I still have feelings for him but I am trying to be strong and move on. Every time I move on he comes back, finding any way to talk to me, he breaks my peace of mind. Your input would help. Thanks.
mammasita Posted January 22, 2014 Posted January 22, 2014 Well you FINALLY did the right thing. Only flaw was responding to his last message. You should have continued to ignore him. Be strong and move on. He doesn't know what he wants as is the case with every person that pulls heart strings and plays games, comes and goes.....etc.
Author msalek89 Posted January 22, 2014 Author Posted January 22, 2014 Well you FINALLY did the right thing. Only flaw was responding to his last message. You should have continued to ignore him. Be strong and move on. He doesn't know what he wants as is the case with every person that pulls heart strings and plays games, comes and goes.....etc. I felt like if I didn't say something he would keep texting back... he can be so persistent. Yea I am aware that there is not left there. I know that all he wants is sex. He just need to find someone else i guess. I deleted my username and app from my phone so hopefully that is the end of that. There is no other way he can get in touch with me.
Recommended Posts