CanJanus Posted January 22, 2014 Posted January 22, 2014 A question for the OW/OM in this forum, how do you communicate with your partner? The BS is becoming a lot more controlling. It hasn't stopped our activities, but it has certainly put a damper. He now tracks phone calls and text messages, and checks on her every 5 minutes when she is out of the house. Ok that might be an exaggeration, but it feels like a lot! Lately he has been talking about working from home, yikes! Silly guy is of course just annoying his WW a lot and is certainly not helping his marriage at all (he was pretty controlling before too, one of the main things that drove MW into my arms), but I like talking with my MW. So, what do you guys do to talk? I'm curious Would especially love the perspective of those who avoided DDays for a while. Thanks!
irresolute Posted January 22, 2014 Posted January 22, 2014 Kik. Download to phone then delete and so on. Yahoo messenger. Same thing Alternative phone.
hippetyhop Posted January 22, 2014 Posted January 22, 2014 We used ChatOn until BS was told some dirt on him. He was afraid and so he deleted that app. From there we just texted. He gave me her phone number in the event she got very suspicious and started texting around.
MissBee Posted January 22, 2014 Posted January 22, 2014 A question for the OW/OM in this forum, how do you communicate with your partner? The BS is becoming a lot more controlling. It hasn't stopped our activities, but it has certainly put a damper. He now tracks phone calls and text messages, and checks on her every 5 minutes when she is out of the house. Ok that might be an exaggeration, but it feels like a lot! Lately he has been talking about working from home, yikes! Silly guy is of course just annoying his WW a lot and is certainly not helping his marriage at all (he was pretty controlling before too, one of the main things that drove MW into my arms), but I like talking with my MW. So, what do you guys do to talk? I'm curious Would especially love the perspective of those who avoided DDays for a while. Thanks! And if he wasn't suspicious of his wife who is in fact having an affair, the marriage would be helped? LMAO! :laugh:Sorry, your statement sounds loony...the woman is actually cheating so it just seems comical that you're acting like because he's suspicious, thus more vigilant, HE's the one doing something wrong and "not helping his marriage" smh. Funny In any case: It's one thing if the BS is oblivious, but seeing as though her husband is suspicious, dday might come around sooner rather than later for you guys. In my A this wasn't an issue, they didn't live together so we spoke freely. 5
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