FrostBlaze Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 Uh, here is the aftermath of some of my previous threads. I loved this girl, we broke up, NC for a long time, she came back and started flirting with me again + being affectionate...despite all this she said she just wanted to be friends?!?! I accepted for a little while. (1 month) I only accepted so that i could TRY more and get her to like me back. Despite this whole friendship part, she sure didn't act with me like i was just a friend, always spending time with me etc, being flirty, just seemed like more. Anyway, i decided i can't be friends with her, because i still love her to much, and it hurts me when she talks about other men..etc. So i broke it off, i told her i can't be just friends ..so she got very upset on me/ CRIED a lot and hates me...i figured she would understand me and accept it. I allready regret this, but i had to do it, despite loving her so much. I did the right thing didn't i? :\ lol, and why is she so upset...maybe she did like me more ?!? idk.
flightplan Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 You did the right thing. It's extremely selfish and immature of her not to understand why you need to go NC. You have to look out for yourself first and foremost. If she doesn't get that, then she's too emotionally immature for a loving relationship. She sounds extremely narcissistic and she's only going to cause you more pain and grief if you give in to her emotional response.
jphcbpa Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 you have to protect your emotional serenity. no one else will. take care of you first and foremost.
Author FrostBlaze Posted January 21, 2014 Author Posted January 21, 2014 You did the right thing. It's extremely selfish and immature of her not to understand why you need to go NC. You have to look out for yourself first and foremost. If she doesn't get that, then she's too emotionally immature for a loving relationship. She sounds extremely narcissistic and she's only going to cause you more pain and grief if you give in to her emotional response. She is what you said...i mean i noticed myself, i told her she is emotionally immature a while back and well offcourse she just took it as a insult, but didn't reflect on what i told her and what i had pointed out...despite all that i still love her. I know i won't break and GO BACK MYSELF looking for her, but if she tries to contact me >_> mhmmmmm, then i might. This is gonna be hard.
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