iworthmore Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 im thinking of asking my family members to stop being her friends. it's not out of grudge or revenge. but her being as friend's with cpl of my family members after our BU kinda bothering me and keeping me from moving on completely. i'v never told anyone she cheated ( only wrote that here) and they don't know what she did, they think she was decent and never lied cuz i never share anything about my RS with anybody, i keep that from myself ( in real life). them being her friends is so annoying and also a reminder of her, i know if i ask them to stop interacting with her they will happily agree. but i still not sure about this behavior. the only reason im thinking of doing this is to help my self. not for hurting her. if i wanted so i'd be telling them all about her long time ago. so what do you think? is it a childish act? it might sound mean and immature but its really a big issue for me. otherwise i have to spend less time with my family member which is out of consideration. they still mention her sometimes cuz they don't know how it ended. some insight will be great. thanks
BDL Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 Cheaters are selfish and immature. You owe her nothing. Time for you to be selfish for your own mental and emotional health. And that begins by telling friends and family members the reason for the breakup. If they have any sense, they would stop interacting with her.
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