paris4 Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 Hi everyone, I would appreciate it very much if I can get some opinion/advice regarding the following: I recently went on a first date with this guy. We met very briefly last year and I just decided to ask him out for coffee. He immediately offered his phone number and texted that he was really looking forward to meeting. I had him pick the date/time and place but offered that it would be my treat. He picked a nice restaurant to go for dinner. Our date was a day after I first contacted him. He arrived very well dressed with flowers. During dinner, we talked and joked about family, interests, work, pretty much everything. The date though ended when we had a sudden pause in our conversation when I think we both ran out of things to ask each other. The waiter then unfortunately gave him the check directly and though I told him again that I should be paying he didn't give me the check and paid for it all (I think the dinner was expensive). We hugged before parting at my door. An hour later he texted to say that he had a great time. The next morning he again texted about having a great time and asked how my day was. We exchanged texts during the two days after our date. He always answered immediately with little smile emoticons. Then I stopped getting texts. Our last conversation was about sports so after one week from our date I invited him to a sports game but he said that he wasn't particularly interested in the team that was playing, asked me if that was my favorite team, and also he probably wont be able to make it because of work. So now its almost two week since our date, I haven't heard anything from him. I did notice that he has an account on a dating website and it says he's been online. So my question to you all is: 1. did he lose interest in me, if so how should I have done things differently? 2. or was he never interested in a second date and was just being polite? 2. or is he just playing the field and want to date others before deciding on who to ask for a second date? I've never really liked a guy I dated until I met him so I really was hoping things would work out. Any advice would be appreciated!
lonesurvivorever Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 I feel for you, girl. Situation like this sucks, confusing enough. I'd pick number 3 for a guess if I have to. But who knows, I suggest you stop initiating any contact, waif for him to do so. It may take a while, but you will know eventually.
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