devastated777 Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 (edited) my ex dumped me 3 months ago. I had 48 hours to get out. Mind you, I was pretty shocked and wasn't thinking clearly, thank god for my dear friend who helped me pack and thought of a lot of things. since the dust has slowly settled, I have been keeping a list of things that I have realized I left. well, today, I had my friend (who he liked and she liked him) call and ask to meet him and get these things back. He told her he had a pile of some of my "****" but he wants to stay away from me or anyone I am associated with. As if he is making it sound like I am a crazy B$%^. ok. fine. That hurts but if that's what he wants, so be it. He then tells her he will drop it off at my dad's. I called my Dad and prepared him for his visit because I know this guy and when he has something to do, he gets it done. He was always a "go getter". About an hour later, our receptionist (at my place of employment) calls me and says she has some stuff up there, on here desk for me. Ok? so I walk up there and there is some nice bowls and on top, is a game called kama sutra and a valentine card that says "To the wonderful man in my life." RIGHT ON TOP FOR ALL TO SEE! I am speechless and totally nervous about the actual stuff I asked for. that stuff was not what I asked for. AT AL!! WTF?? I do not want him to come back here with more stuff. AT my job. AND I do not want to contact him. I am still shocked at how the times I broke NC, I told him I understood and wished him well. Why in the hell did he do this?? What do I do? It's as if he wants to start something. Would it not be easier just to say ok. peace from my end too?? Edited January 21, 2014 by devastated777
Philosoraptor Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 He sounds like scum. Congrats for getting freedom from this piece of garbage. Go on and enjoy your life. 1
LostConfused123 Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 Completely uncalled for at your place of business. That's just low. I mean, that's our livelihood. Hopefully, after an immature stunt like that, all the love (on your end) will be totally diminished. Sorry that happened to you. I would be angry too. What a weasel!!! 1
Chi townD Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 Kama Sutra game cards...that sounds like fun.......I mean....*cough* *cough* WHAT A DOUCHE ROCKET!!! I mean, use some frickin common sense! Really?!?! Out of all the things to bring! At least he could have done was box it up and not leave your business out for everyone to see! This should make it really easy to drop this asshat! And if you have any naked pictures of him, drop them off at HIS work with a little post it note on stating, "Thought you might want these back. But, looking at these pics reminded me that it might be too cold at my place. Thanks for reminding me to get the furnace checked." Just kidding...don't do that. 2
Zahara Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 Unfortunately, people deal with their emotions differently. He was probably trying to antagonize you to such a level whereby you will break contact and contact him. Some dumpers hate when they smell you moving on or bruising their ego by avoiding contact with them. He was probably being vindictive. There was no need to do what he did. I don't think he'll revisit your work but let the rest of your stuff go. It's just not worth it. If you lived 3 months without whatever it is you left there, you can just let the stuff go. 1
Author devastated777 Posted January 21, 2014 Author Posted January 21, 2014 Unfortunately, people deal with their emotions differently. He was probably trying to antagonize you to such a level whereby you will break contact and contact him. Some dumpers hate when they smell you moving on or bruising their ego by avoiding contact with them. He was probably being vindictive. There was no need to do what he did. I don't think he'll revisit your work but let the rest of your stuff go. It's just not worth it. If you lived 3 months without whatever it is you left there, you can just let the stuff go. Yes, I am doing that. I just keep reminding my self it's just a material thing. No biggie. one of the main things was a nice thick piece of glass to go over my wicker table on my porch. fortunately I work for a company that can buy from a glass company. However, the price is higher than I thought. I see why he is keeping it. assface. *sigh...this too shall pass.
Author devastated777 Posted January 21, 2014 Author Posted January 21, 2014 Kama Sutra game cards...that sounds like fun.......I mean....*cough* *cough* WHAT A DOUCHE ROCKET!!! I mean, use some frickin common sense! Really?!?! Out of all the things to bring! At least he could have done was box it up and not leave your business out for everyone to see! This should make it really easy to drop this asshat! And if you have any naked pictures of him, drop them off at HIS work with a little post it note on stating, "Thought you might want these back. But, looking at these pics reminded me that it might be too cold at my place. Thanks for reminding me to get the furnace checked." Just kidding...don't do that. Haha!! I do have one where we were goofing around and I got a pic of him on the toilet! hmmmm I can dream but yeah, just going to do nothing to his poor miserable self except give him my silence! 1
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