ABSareAMAZING Posted January 21, 2014 Share Posted January 21, 2014 Photo Of My Text Messages: http://i.imgur.com/VfxNvKZ.png Just before these messages,I asked her if she would like to come out with me at the weekend and I said I wanted to show my friends how pretty a girl could be. She didn't text back after that Please be honest.Thank you everyone. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ABSareAMAZING Posted January 21, 2014 Author Share Posted January 21, 2014 Anyone? Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestUSA Posted January 21, 2014 Share Posted January 21, 2014 Maybe stop with the 'pretty girl' thing? How old is she? She sounds uninterested, tbh. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author ABSareAMAZING Posted January 21, 2014 Author Share Posted January 21, 2014 Maybe stop with the 'pretty girl' thing? How old is she? She sounds uninterested, tbh. Oh okay,I guess I should leave her alone then. Link to post Share on other sites
soccerrprp Posted January 21, 2014 Share Posted January 21, 2014 Yeah, probably not interested. She responded 1hr 20 min later and her response was terse. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
abby2 Posted January 21, 2014 Share Posted January 21, 2014 I think this is normal, not mean. But how long have you guys been dating? Link to post Share on other sites
Author ABSareAMAZING Posted January 21, 2014 Author Share Posted January 21, 2014 Yeah, probably not interested. She responded 1hr 20 min later and her response was terse. @soccerrprp I'm the message in the green...Shes the message in the grey Link to post Share on other sites
Author ABSareAMAZING Posted January 21, 2014 Author Share Posted January 21, 2014 I think this is normal, not mean. But how long have you guys been dating? 3 weeks abby2 Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestUSA Posted January 21, 2014 Share Posted January 21, 2014 @soccerrprp I'm the message in the green...Shes the message in the grey Oh, in that case. She sounds reasonably interested. You were terse. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
soccerrprp Posted January 21, 2014 Share Posted January 21, 2014 @soccerrprp I'm the message in the green...Shes the message in the grey Oh, sorry, wasn't too certain. It sounds like YOU'RE the one that isn't too interested. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
abby2 Posted January 21, 2014 Share Posted January 21, 2014 3 weeks abby2 That's pretty short time so she might not be ready to meet your friends yet. It could be a pressure for her for now. But she still interested in you, don't give up though if you really like her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author ABSareAMAZING Posted January 21, 2014 Author Share Posted January 21, 2014 Oh, sorry, wasn't too certain. It sounds like YOU'RE the one that isn't too interested. No worries This was the 2nd time of me asking her out and shes not sure about being around...and stuff but it annoys me that im always the one to send her the first message... She never replied to me when i said night Link to post Share on other sites
Author ABSareAMAZING Posted January 21, 2014 Author Share Posted January 21, 2014 That's pretty short time so she might not be ready to meet your friends yet. It could be a pressure for her for now. But she still interested in you, don't give up though if you really like her. Awh but this was the 2nd time me asking her out first time she was babysitting now she might not be around because she lives 2 hours away,The thing that annoyed me is that i always send the first message to her before she talks to me and thats why i left a short message thanks abby.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ABSareAMAZING Posted January 21, 2014 Author Share Posted January 21, 2014 Oh, in that case. She sounds reasonably interested. You were terse. thanks for your input. Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted January 21, 2014 Share Posted January 21, 2014 If you are not happy with something, it's better to say it nicely and say why it's bothering you rather than text passive aggressive messages back about going to bed. The other person won't know what your issues is, only that you have the hump. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
abby2 Posted January 21, 2014 Share Posted January 21, 2014 Did you try calling her on the phone asking her out? instead of texting Sometime maybe better to speak directly on the phone 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author ABSareAMAZING Posted January 21, 2014 Author Share Posted January 21, 2014 If you are not happy with something, it's better to say it nicely and say why it's bothering you rather than text passive aggressive messages back about going to bed. The other person won't know what your issues is, only that you have the hump. @Emilia The reason I was a bit short I guess was because I always have to text her first every time...If i don't message her she never messages me and thats not how relationships work :/ Can you give me some more advice please! She never texted me back when I said goodnight either Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestUSA Posted January 21, 2014 Share Posted January 21, 2014 @Emilia The reason I was a bit short I guess was because I always have to text her first every time...If i don't message her she never messages me and thats not how relationships work :/ Can you give me some more advice please! She never texted me back when I said goodnight either Perhaps she was already asleep? Plus, you took your time with your reply, maybe she stops looking at her phone after a certain time? - you know, a break from technology and all that. But, if you're constantly initiating, it would certainly indicate that she's not all that interested. I would pull back and not contact her at all. If she's into you, she'll eventually text. If not, well, you have your answer. Good luck! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author ABSareAMAZING Posted January 21, 2014 Author Share Posted January 21, 2014 Perhaps she was already asleep? Plus, you took your time with your reply, maybe she stops looking at her phone after a certain time? - you know, a break from technology and all that. But, if you're constantly initiating, it would certainly indicate that she's not all that interested. I would pull back and not contact her at all. If she's into you, she'll eventually text. If not, well, you have your answer. Good luck! Thank you MidwestUSA Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestUSA Posted January 21, 2014 Share Posted January 21, 2014 You're welcome. Again, good luck! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author ABSareAMAZING Posted January 21, 2014 Author Share Posted January 21, 2014 Did you try calling her on the phone asking her out? instead of texting Sometime maybe better to speak directly on the phone I'm not sure I feel like I'm doing all the work,Texting first and if I ring I would be ringing first and it should be give and take i think don't you abby? Link to post Share on other sites
Lansing Posted January 21, 2014 Share Posted January 21, 2014 This is teh 2nd time you have asked people to intrepret your text messages with this lady (the same 30 year old one, 10 years older than you??) I would say relax a bit... You said "good night" to her, maybe she didn't see it until 30 minutes later and didn't want to wake you up? Just ask her out on dates and go out.. Don't use texting to have "discussions". 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author ABSareAMAZING Posted January 21, 2014 Author Share Posted January 21, 2014 This is teh 2nd time you have asked people to intrepret your text messages with this lady (the same 30 year old one, 10 years older than you??) I would say relax a bit... You said "good night" to her, maybe she didn't see it until 30 minutes later and didn't want to wake you up? Just ask her out on dates and go out.. Don't use texting to have "discussions". Thanks for that,But I feel like crap... I feel like I'm doing all the work,Texting first and if I ring I would be ringing first and it should be give and take still? Link to post Share on other sites
abby2 Posted January 22, 2014 Share Posted January 22, 2014 I'm not sure I feel like I'm doing all the work,Texting first and if I ring I would be ringing first and it should be give and take i think don't you abby? Yes, just don't contact her first now and wait to see if she contacts you if not, this shows she's not that interested. Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted January 22, 2014 Share Posted January 22, 2014 All this contact and no contact and pulling back and whatever. Just call her. Girls are used to being chased. Establish more rapport with her through your voice, not meaningless texts. When you speak to her second or third time ask her to call you sometimes. Tell her that you would like it if she called you every now and then. Ask for what you want. Maybe she just doesn't want to look forward. The fact that her texts weren't just 2 words means she cares at least some. Link to post Share on other sites
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