kenzingtonxox Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 i recently met this guy and we have been on a few dates. it is his birthday this weekend and he is having a big party with all his friends and then going out after. im not sure wether or not to go because meeting all his friends at once seems slightly intimidating but i dont want to be rude and not go to his birthday.. im kinda lost here im not that good at dating so i dont wanna mess this up!! any thoughts? anything helps !!
Barbarossa Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 Did he invite you to his party? If so I would go. If I liked a woman and she blew me off on my birthday I would be totally bummed out. His friends might even try to put him down with another woman there is no better game than "it's my birthday". While meeting his friends might be intimidating your going to meet them sooner or later anyway.
d0nnivain Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 Go to the party. If you are that freaked out going "alone" since he will be the center of attention, ask if you can bring a girlfriend. Very few guys object to additional women at parties.
Philosoraptor Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 Just talk normal. These are just people like anyone else. Nothing to be intimidated about. Just be yourself and understand that it's no different than talking to the cashier at the store while you're being run up. You think that's bad? I got to meet my fiancee's entire extended family at a funeral. "It's nice to finally meet you. I'm sorry about the terms of our meeting"... fun to say this to everyone.
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