Chromeheart Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 First some context. I asked this girl out and she said yes. Great! We had plans but she got sick at the last minute (or did she?). Then she went out the next night and seemed fine. I then asked her if she was free another night and she said yes but then stopped talking to me after that never telling me what day. She hates talking on the phone and it seems like she wants this to be a secret because she never talks around friends. I'm just speculating but that's what it seems like. At first I thought this was pretty cut and dry and maybe it still is. At first she would text me everyday but then after a week or so she had slowed down a bit, which is fine. I don't expect to be in contact 24/7 if we aren't a couple. But then it got to the point where she would hardly ever Initiate the conversation or would take hours to reply or sometimes not reply at all. Once again, fine, we all have life's and there's other important things to do. (Btw I know she checked my messages since we use iMessage ) Thing is, she told me several times she really liked me. But then she just stopped and I figured well that's that. I don't want to seem desperate so I left it alone. I didn't call or text for a while and then she finally texted me, to which I wrote back and then got no response until I messaged her the next night. To wrap it up a bit, she stopped talking to me and I just ignored her on snapchat (I'm so cold lol) since a lot of our convos happened through there. Now she keeps texting me why I'm not on there and why aren't I talking to her. Am I over thinking this because I feel like I am but then again I feel like this is some sort of game. She I still talk to her? I'm sure I'm leaving a couple details out but that's the basics. Any help would be greatly appreciated!
MrMeh Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 You could try being direct with her about what you want to do? If that doesn't work then I suppose she isn't that into you.
Thegreatestthing Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 I'm doing the exact same thing with a guy and I'm really Into him, it's really good that you've been ignioring her on snapchat etc it's like a wake up call,no more games etc or I'm gone ,that's why she is all why aren't you talking to me blabla,I said the same thing after ignoring him for days. You know sometimes we don't even know why we do this,it's like courting or something. Best thing you can do ignore her another day,then ask her if she likes you simple,I feel like I'm pretty ready to admit I like him now and stop being aloof simply because he is doing to me what I did to him and I hate it,but be wary once you pay attention to her again she might begin the flakiness once more. May be a total waste of time.
Conners Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 There is probably another a guy she likes more.. and she's keeping you around as a back up.
Author Chromeheart Posted January 22, 2014 Author Posted January 22, 2014 Yeah we'll see. I'm not really fretting. There are other girls out there and I'm not one for games. If she messages me again then I MIGHT text back but she has to say something to grab my attention. Although I'm not entirely sure what'll say when she asks why I blocked her lol I don't wanna seem like I'm being childish or it bothered me THAT much. I could ask her how she feels about me but then it may just boost her ego and think that I still really care. Thanks for the advise though, we'll see what happens. At the very least, this has been sort of interesting if not a little annoying
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