litt Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 My boyfriend of almost two years broke up with me last week, completely out of the blue. A few days prior, i told him I was not feeling like myself and felt sort of depressed. He has been dealing with his dad having cancer, mother having mental issues, his best friend going through legal troubles, not having enough money (he feels like he needs to provide for me). He said he felt completely helpless when I told him how I was feeling and he ended things with me so I could "find someone better." I want no one else, he is an amazing person and we've had a great relationship with no major issues. He also told me he felt pressured because we were talking about getting a place together and the subject of marriage had come up. In my heart, I feel that he got overwhelmed/or is depressed due to everything he's been dealing with the past few months. We have mutual friends that saw him a couple days ago and told me he's seems very emotionless (he bottles everything up, which is why I didn't know he was struggling so badly.) He said he loves me so much but feels like he's not been a good boyfriend. It's been 5 days NC and I miss him so much. We are the closest people each other has in our lives and I think he just panicked and felt he had no control over all of the crazy stuff in his life...Thoughts?
flightplan Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 When a guy tells you to "find someone better", thats another way of saying it's over. He's either interested in someone else or he wants to be free to find someone else. There is no guy alive who adores his woman and then tells her to "find someone better" because he loves you so much to let you go. Guys are NOT that noble. You might want to brace yourself because I think you might be taking his intentions the wrong way. He's not panicked. He knows what he's doing.
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