johnww92 Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 Ok I have been going out with a girl for about 2 months and before me she got out of a messed up long relationship. Anyways things where going great for us we where always together and she even told me she loved me and we made each-other happy and it looked like things where too good to be true. Anyways about 2 weeks ago she texted me and said we rushed things too fast and she wants to slow down so I started giving her space and things where going fine again we still texted everyday and met up twice a week. Anyways the last day she texted me and said its over she tried going slow but cant be with anyone right now because shes out of a long relationship and needs to be on her own for now. I dunno what to do I want her back. Do I have a chance if I don't contact her for a while and give her some time to think?
d0cholliday Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 Ok I have been going out with a girl for about 2 months and before me she got out of a messed up long relationship. Anyways things where going great for us we where always together and she even told me she loved me and we made each-other happy and it looked like things where too good to be true. Anyways about 2 weeks ago she texted me and said we rushed things too fast and she wants to slow down so I started giving her space and things where going fine again we still texted everyday and met up twice a week. Anyways the last day she texted me and said its over she tried going slow but cant be with anyone right now because shes out of a long relationship and needs to be on her own for now. I dunno what to do I want her back. Do I have a chance if I don't contact her for a while and give her some time to think? Sorry, but you are a rebound. Your best bet should be going NC, but absolutely no contact at all. Probably her ex started to contact her or something, so she is confused. Just go ninja on her, dissapear. It gives both of you some time and space, oh how I hate that time and space ****, just sit talk and resolve issues, but that doesn't happen in RL. So try doing NC for a month, start dating, find some other girl, have fun, and if your ex really want's you she'll be back. Also make yourself busy, gym and stuff, work on yourself, always look good, be cool, and smile
Author johnww92 Posted January 20, 2014 Author Posted January 20, 2014 Sorry, but you are a rebound. Your best bet should be going NC, but absolutely no contact at all. Probably her ex started to contact her or something, so she is confused. Just go ninja on her, dissapear. It gives both of you some time and space, oh how I hate that time and space ****, just sit talk and resolve issues, but that doesn't happen in RL. So try doing NC for a month, start dating, find some other girl, have fun, and if your ex really want's you she'll be back. Also make yourself busy, gym and stuff, work on yourself, always look good, be cool, and smile Yeah I think I'll do the no contact. Its gonna be hard but il pull through its my only chance. I think she knows she made a mistake shes just stressed out lately and confused.
d0cholliday Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 Wait for her to figure it out, but move on, I'm in a same poisition, waiting, doing NC, altough my RS was serious and long... But it's necessary to move on, without her, she needs to know you can live without her, you want her but don't need her.
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