JohnnyLoverBoy Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 1yr of relationship I didn't treat her well and I took her for granted. She loves me so much even Begged to talk to me when we argue. She's even buying me expensive gifts. 2nd year of relationship I Became Needy, Clingy show her my 100% love till she lost all her feelings for me.. Just don't really understand how really relationship works anymore. Once you show you love them they will stop loving you.. Is it better to just don't show too much affection and be unpredictable? She said she will be always here for me but she wanted to be alone and doesn't wanna have any relationship right now. If only I can turn back time and do things over again.
pickflicker Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 1yr of relationship I didn't treat her well and I took her for granted. She loves me so much even Begged to talk to me when we argue. She's even buying me expensive gifts. 2nd year of relationship I Became Needy, Clingy show her my 100% love till she lost all her feelings for me.. Just don't really understand how really relationship works anymore. Once you show you love them they will stop loving you.. Is it better to just don't show too much affection and be unpredictable? She said she will be always here for me but she wanted to be alone and doesn't wanna have any relationship right now. If only I can turn back time and do things over again. How were you needy and clingy? You shouldn't be unpredictable. You should be kind, considerate and honest.
Author JohnnyLoverBoy Posted January 20, 2014 Author Posted January 20, 2014 I became clingy, always telling her I love her so much and nothing going on my life that is interesting.. Stopped talking to all my friends. It's like my world just revolve around her. Sucks! How were you needy and clingy? You shouldn't be unpredictable. You should be kind, considerate and honest.
pickflicker Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 I became clingy, always telling her I love her so much and nothing going on my life that is interesting.. Stopped talking to all my friends. It's like my world just revolve around her. Sucks! Yep, epic fail, never do that. 1
Author JohnnyLoverBoy Posted January 20, 2014 Author Posted January 20, 2014 Yea don't even know if there's a chance to get her back someday.. Funny how we switch places.. before she's the one like super in love with me willing to do everything for me and then when I knew that she is the one and I can't afford to loose the girl she started to drift away. Yep, epic fail, never do that.
Cakess Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 ..If that's the case I'm sure if you pulled back for a couple of weeks/months and went NC she might start contacting you again? At least then you'll know how to find a better balance between your real life and your love life. 1
pickflicker Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 Yea don't even know if there's a chance to get her back someday.. Funny how we switch places.. before she's the one like super in love with me willing to do everything for me and then when I knew that she is the one and I can't afford to loose the girl she started to drift away. There's plenty of girls out there, she's not the only one...
Author JohnnyLoverBoy Posted January 21, 2014 Author Posted January 21, 2014 True! the sucky part though is starting all over again on finding the right one.. and finding the one that you will be compatible with. There's plenty of girls out there, she's not the only one...
Author JohnnyLoverBoy Posted January 21, 2014 Author Posted January 21, 2014 Already did NC for like 3 months now... She contacted me several times but only thing she wants is friendship.. ..If that's the case I'm sure if you pulled back for a couple of weeks/months and went NC she might start contacting you again? At least then you'll know how to find a better balance between your real life and your love life.
pickflicker Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 True! the sucky part though is starting all over again on finding the right one.. and finding the one that you will be compatible with. That's dating. You'll be fine. There's no point revisiting a relationship that's broken just because you're scared to embrace the future.
carl777 Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 Yea don't even know if there's a chance to get her back someday.. Funny how we switch places.. before she's the one like super in love with me willing to do everything for me and then when I knew that she is the one and I can't afford to loose the girl she started to drift away. Good news. There's no such thing as "The One". Also, be yourself buddy. You'll never be happy if you're trying to be someone else just because you think this is what your girlfriend wants.
Jord11 Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 Hate to say it, but it sounds just like me, if only I could turn it all around from what I've learnt now things would probably be different, my world was this girl always wanted to see her and be with her, till she said it was too much and broke it off, I'm in no contact now it will almost be a year, looking back on how stupid I was and all the mistakes I made, I wish I could go back and play it all different, but you learn on what to do and not what to do, don't fall in love too much, it will only hurt in the end 1
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