neverguessme Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 Ok, so I've been seeing this girl for about 2 weeks, I'm 18 She's 21. She broke up with her ex about 2 months ago and she was going on about how much she hates him and everything, he also owes her money. I have been sleeping with this girl she makes me happy and she has met my parents and everything She was round my house about a week ago and her phone was ringing she asked me not to say anything while she was on the phone so I said ok, I was in the room while she was talking to this person, she was getting emotional, upset and raising her voice at him, but also saying things like I know you better than anyone and I know you're not happy, she was talking to him for about 15 mins and when she got off the phone ( I already knew but asked who it was anyway) and she confirmed it was her Ex, I said to her why're you talking to him, and she's saying I was with him for two and a half years and he's got kidney failure and his new girlfriend doesn't understand him. I don't know if I'm just being paranoid because I can get very paranoid so if someone could give me some good advice it would be most appreciated, Thanks
d0nnivain Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 The good news is she took the phone call in front of you rather than hiding. If he is genuinely ill, you may have to be the bigger person & let her continue to talk to him without making a fuss. As long as you know what she's saying & it's nothing overtly sexual try to be calm in the face of his illness. If you can't do that, break up with her. But I don't think you can ask her to stop talking to him.
ExpatInItaly Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 Ok, so I've been seeing this girl for about 2 weeks, I'm 18 She's 21. She broke up with her ex about 2 months ago and she was going on about how much she hates him and everything, he also owes her money. I have been sleeping with this girl she makes me happy and she has met my parents and everything She was round my house about a week ago and her phone was ringing she asked me not to say anything while she was on the phone so I said ok, I was in the room while she was talking to this person, she was getting emotional, upset and raising her voice at him, but also saying things like I know you better than anyone and I know you're not happy, she was talking to him for about 15 mins and when she got off the phone ( I already knew but asked who it was anyway) and she confirmed it was her Ex, I said to her why're you talking to him, and she's saying I was with him for two and a half years and he's got kidney failure and his new girlfriend doesn't understand him. I don't know if I'm just being paranoid because I can get very paranoid so if someone could give me some good advice it would be most appreciated, Thanks You're not being paranoid - something is not right here. She's hiding you from him, and I would ask her why. 1
Author neverguessme Posted January 21, 2014 Author Posted January 21, 2014 I did ask her why, she said its because she didn't want him getting more upset about it. He does have a kidney problem but I don't know if that's what they were actually talking about.
d0nnivain Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 You need to clarify. First you said he has kidney failure which is fatal. If that is the case, both of them get a huge passes while he's dying. Now you are saying kidney problems which is was less serious.
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