reginald_thm Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 Long story short. Dating a girl for a couple months who didn't want to become exclusive. Told her that if she's ever interested in pursuing something more serious/exclusive that she should get in touch with me. Been in NC ever since. My question is this. Do they ever come back? I believe the answer is no, but has anyone had any experience to prove otherwise?
Frank2thepoint Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 Personally, my experience has been no they don't come back. Actually, I didn't stick around waiting for them to come around. At least the girl was honest with you, didn't string you along. Just keep it moving bro. 3
lonesurvivorever Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 depends. sometimes when she ends alone and lonely, she may think of you then start it over again. The thing is what if she does later? what will you do?
Ladiixmk Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 How long ago did this happen? Personally, they alwaysss come back. Only one guy in my life didn't but that relationship from hell. Even a guy who said he didn't want to be exclusive came back into my life, asking for a relationship. Just pay her no mind and try to move on.
Bluefin12 Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 Meeting new people to get your mind off of her it the best course of action here, in my opinion. There are SO MANY PEOPLE in your city that will appreciate you and who ARE looking fro exclusivity. Get in touch with them by becoming active in your community and keeping you eyes open. Good luck to ya! 1
Guitarisgood Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 Don't count on it. Just leave on good terms in case but. Funny thing is when they do get back in contact, you've many a times moved onto something better. 2
HokeyReligions Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 Long story short. Dating a girl for a couple months who didn't want to become exclusive. Told her that if she's ever interested in pursuing something more serious/exclusive that she should get in touch with me. Been in NC ever since. My question is this. Do they ever come back? According to Stephen King.....Sometimes they do...... 1
brine133 Posted January 23, 2014 Posted January 23, 2014 No never come from back .some timd comes but thst ur spiders wich u realise inside her back
AnyaNova Posted January 23, 2014 Posted January 23, 2014 I don't know. In my life I'm sort of 1 for each. Had an abusive ex. Dumped me (I was relationally dumb and low self-confidence at the time) and so we continued to do everything but, even though I was no longer his girlfriend. This fact haunts me still. BUT, after I went no contact with him for several months and stuck by it. All of a sudden there was an email from him. He wasn't looking for a girlfriend, or so he said, but he sure spent so much time talking about how he couldn't find one. I was with the boyfriend I would be with for another 13 years, so I wasn't particularly concerned with his plight. My second ex, we are still friends. And it actually does work for both of us. My third ex, haven't heard from him since in any clearly definable way, shape or form. Don't expect to.
gaius Posted January 23, 2014 Posted January 23, 2014 Sometimes they come back in one form or another. But is she going to come back to you one day, saying she made a terrible mistake and she wants to be exclusive with you? Probably not unless you win the lottery. Only happens like that in the movies. Sometimes its for the best really that you don't hear from them. It's like talking to a corpse when one of my ex's gets in touch. I feel obligated to answer but none of the special energy we had is there anymore. It's like I'm not even talking to the same person. Makes me sad.
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