Itspointless Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 Something doesn't add up. Either he feels extremely entitled or this is his twisted interpretation of cultural or religious ideas. I also wrote it in the previous thread, in my country there are more muslimboys who reason this way. It is culture mixed with certain interpretations of that religion. Also the fact that you are not muslim makes some of them feel entitled to treat you this way. Such guys almost never intend to make their promisses true. Luckily not all of them are like this. This guy probably never has seen you as a potential partner.
Author innocentbutterfly Posted February 23, 2014 Author Posted February 23, 2014 (edited) U have probably read my previous topics. Its been 3 months. H didn0žt change or something. Between us 'staying friends' there were gaps of 10, 15 days of chats which were always him somehow going into sex talk and reminiscing/remembering our times, wanting sex chats...even saying once we could still meet someday if I was around, just to have sex...he always said best part of our relationship was sex, virtual and real... it was long distance relationship. 2 years. we met online and met in real once for 10 days. It was great, love all around, then before I left he said we should finish because of distance, then said how he didnt like my 'childish' behaviour,,,3 months later we talked sexual past and he found i was exchinaging nude pics with one of my ldr exes...moral that made him break up with me despite him getting my virginity etc(hes muslim and wanted me 'pure' and only for him - read my threads) so why does he still think our fantasies? why do they still make him hot? he says he goes by a park and remembers it, but stops it to not get hard... why s he still thinking them, if he forgot me and doesnt love me anymore (he says that) he says we just lived crazy and good days and its normal he imagines them and that he likes the feeling when he does it...i try to keep my cool. I dont have any more hope left. I just want to know why? He obviously doesn't want to be with me together again (talked sth about fresh start once he said I see him as '****er' - his words and he sees me as his ex and that that is over) What do you think? Edited February 23, 2014 by innocentbutterfly
Secret Advisor Posted February 23, 2014 Posted February 23, 2014 You must give really hot fantasies for him to still remember them.
TaraMaiden Posted February 23, 2014 Posted February 23, 2014 Why are you still even speaking to him??
Author innocentbutterfly Posted February 23, 2014 Author Posted February 23, 2014 You must give really hot fantasies for him to still remember them. Yeah. Groupie fantasies and it made him too excited to know my deepest thoughts. U can see im not proud that he chose to remember that part. And why? I dont get it. He said he might even think of me while having sex with new gf when he has one..and he knows im liking a guy and its just about time till we start a relationship and he doesnt even care. He still initiates sex talks with me. Then says we are only talking history. I still talk cause we stayed friends, though i dont see this sex talks as us being friends
Author innocentbutterfly Posted February 23, 2014 Author Posted February 23, 2014 its just i dont get it why. Dont they just forget everything of ex? Why would he still remember. And i think that isnt even healthy. If he keeps doing that how can he have clear mind in new relationships
TaraMaiden Posted February 23, 2014 Posted February 23, 2014 I don't get why you're still talking to him. Why ARE you still talking to him?? 2
Author innocentbutterfly Posted February 23, 2014 Author Posted February 23, 2014 i said why, because he agreed we could stay friends
Author innocentbutterfly Posted March 2, 2014 Author Posted March 2, 2014 (edited) LOL GUYS, HE IS STILL DOING THIS. Last 3 days he is clicking and trying to get me have sex chat, implying it, telling me he knows what I like, saying he knows I want to do it, that he knows me how I am, when I say no, he says oh are you shy, don't be. Or Ah, I was just kidding. But still continues the subject. When I say go find cam girls and have those chats with them he says he can find a million if he want and that I am starting again. lol what am I starting? We can't fight anymore right, he always said that when we were together before we fought. He always clicks when he's in bed/has a free day. If I say I dont want indirectly he says you gotta tell me that before I ask putting grinning smileys. But again still continues the subject. What does he want, is he really so desperate? And why is he saying if I'd try to be with one of his friends that he would be jealous/angry. Why would he still have ANY emotion concerning me? I find it hilarious. He knows I'm also talking with a new guy that we both like each other and he doesn't even think of that when he wants to start sex chats with me. Tonight he saw there will be nothing and he spent replying 8 minutes and then just said Close the subject and 8 minutes later he wrote, I have to sleep, see u bye. LOL! like I didn't know he just went to masturbate because he was implying it already since yesterday and asked me if I did something and told me he didn't. Then he just offed internet and vanished. What is his problem, he is desperate or something? I'm seriously laughing everytime I see it. I don't have any love feeling left for him thanks to the new guy. He irritates me with those talks. Edited March 2, 2014 by innocentbutterfly
TaraMaiden Posted March 3, 2014 Posted March 3, 2014 My question to you is slightly different.... I don't frankly give a rat's behind as to why he is still persisting... What truly puzzles me more is why you are still leaving yourself open to contact?? You need to block him, delete, deny, not respond/react/reply, and cut him off at the knees. Quit answering him! All the while you do - you feed his ego.... He is convinced you want it, because you are demonstrating a willingness to engage with him in discussion. So why, if you keep replying, would he not believe that? He thinks he can wear you down - and he's convinced, by your continued input, that he's right!! Jeesh woman - do the right thing - Kick him to the kerb, move on, and quit wasting time!
TaraMaiden Posted March 3, 2014 Posted March 3, 2014 ..."because he agreed we could stay friends".... Hah!!
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