GreySkyMorning Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 Solostand: Here are some suggestions for your D-day handbook. As a BH, I have a good perspective on this: Be prepared to be vilified by the BS. You will be painted in the worst terms possible. The BS will want to destroy you, so refrain from contact. Avoid contact with MM/MW during or shortly after D-Day. If the MM/MW asks for NC from you, then simply obey this wish. Don't go fishing for a response from them, not even months later. Withdrawal from an A is tough enough. Constantly hitting the reset switch each time NC is broken never helps hearts to mend. Even though more often than not, its the MM/MW that comes back doing the fishing? All the while portraying the remorseful spouse at home? Cracks me up how much its painted the OP fishes and tries to keep contact, but the wayward is just innocent. My xmm's w thinks he is in NC now. 1
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