healthydude Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 Okay I have a confession to make, People around me in real life will think that I made a terrible mistake finding love online but to tell everyone the truth, my time spent with her has FUELED me to achieve successes because I was INSPIRED and MOTIVATED by her. I live in Philippines and she lives in Western Australia The Story (not very long) I'm 22 years old right now and I last July 2013 I made an MMORPG private server and I spammed it on every facebook group related to gaming. I saw her in a big facebook group, she owns the group and because of that I decided to add her as a friend. I thought with her ownership, I could rake lots of players to play on my server. Then things went AWESOME when I added her on Skype, then we started chatting alot about MUSIC stuff (she makes really good dubstep compositions) and then it lasted until 7-8th of October 2013 (when she disappeared) During July~September I was already earning alot from internet marketing as a "media buyer" (I buy advertisements) like $8,000~10,000 per week because I was able to do work non-stop and I had a plan to fly to her and meet her in real life. Things are going really well for both of us but then during the night of October 8th she told me the following exact words: "If I'm not online, it means I have internet problem. Don't ever let any girl come to you" My response were: "Roger!" So basically that was it. She never went online after that but she was online last December 16th on Facebook and she liked my new profile photo and liked all my statuses but never messaged me. Another thing, I've sent her some small gift to the address she gave me but things shattered inside me when the post office told me that the address were non-existent. I don't know, tell me I'm stupid but I still love this girl. Should I wait for her?
justwhoiam Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 You're smart in your job, but clueless regarding online relationships. She never went online after that but she was online last December 16th on Facebook and she liked my new profile photo and liked all my statuses but never messaged me. Why didn't you? Why didn't you ask if she was OK? She let you know she was back online and you ignored her. Another thing, I've sent her some small gift to the address she gave me but things shattered inside me when the post office told me that the address were non-existent. As soon as you get to talk to her, take the bull by the horns and ask for her mobile number. You call her and tell her you sent something to the address she gave you but the address didn't exist. If she refuses to give you her number, she might be a catfish case. It's not 100% sure, but possible. Don't tell her about all that through a FB message, because she will have the time to think it out and make up some excuse.
FitChick Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 Contact memyselfi who has several threads in this forum. She sounds just like you and she lives in the Philippines! Good luck!
nomadic_butterfly Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 Okay I have a confession to make, People around me in real life will think that I made a terrible mistake finding love online but to tell everyone the truth, my time spent with her has FUELED me to achieve successes because I was INSPIRED and MOTIVATED by her. I live in Philippines and she lives in Western Australia The Story (not very long) I'm 22 years old right now and I last July 2013 I made an MMORPG private server and I spammed it on every facebook group related to gaming. I saw her in a big facebook group, she owns the group and because of that I decided to add her as a friend. I thought with her ownership, I could rake lots of players to play on my server. Then things went AWESOME when I added her on Skype, then we started chatting alot about MUSIC stuff (she makes really good dubstep compositions) and then it lasted until 7-8th of October 2013 (when she disappeared) During July~September I was already earning alot from internet marketing as a "media buyer" (I buy advertisements) like $8,000~10,000 per week because I was able to do work non-stop and I had a plan to fly to her and meet her in real life. Things are going really well for both of us but then during the night of October 8th she told me the following exact words: "If I'm not online, it means I have internet problem. Don't ever let any girl come to you" My response were: "Roger!" So basically that was it. She never went online after that but she was online last December 16th on Facebook and she liked my new profile photo and liked all my statuses but never messaged me. Another thing, I've sent her some small gift to the address she gave me but things shattered inside me when the post office told me that the address were non-existent. I don't know, tell me I'm stupid but I still love this girl. Should I wait for her? This makes absolutely no sense. How old are you? I hope younger than you've stated. Honestly. Wait for someone who has clearly moved on? I would say she should have had the decency to tell you at least but you guys never had anything concrete, no definite date to meet, no solid plans on how it could work. Move on to a local. It doesn't sound like you're cut out for long distance. You're being discouraged not because you met online but rather because you are being very simple minded about an open shut case. Everything was a lie and you "love" an illusion. Come back to the REAL world! 1
Author healthydude Posted January 21, 2014 Author Posted January 21, 2014 No. (10 char's) Thanks for the response. I know its logical to do what you said but some part of me still want to hold on though. Contact memyselfi who has several threads in this forum. She sounds just like you and she lives in the Philippines! Good luck! Thanks for letting me know. You're smart in your job, but clueless regarding online relationships. Why didn't you? Why didn't you ask if she was OK? She let you know she was back online and you ignored her. As soon as you get to talk to her, take the bull by the horns and ask for her mobile number. You call her and tell her you sent something to the address she gave you but the address didn't exist. If she refuses to give you her number, she might be a catfish case. It's not 100% sure, but possible. Don't tell her about all that through a FB message, because she will have the time to think it out and make up some excuse. I forgot to mention that she was online for only 10 minutes and her other friend told me that she didn't went online for long (and I wasn't online when she went on during that 10 minutes) I got her Mobile Phone Number and I've tried calling her but she never hang up on me. I even sent her text messages, but never replied. This makes absolutely no sense. How old are you? I hope younger than you've stated. Honestly. Wait for someone who has clearly moved on? I would say she should have had the decency to tell you at least but you guys never had anything concrete, no definite date to meet, no solid plans on how it could work. Move on to a local. It doesn't sound like you're cut out for long distance. You're being discouraged not because you met online but rather because you are being very simple minded about an open shut case. Everything was a lie and you "love" an illusion. Come back to the REAL world! Thanks for the wake up call. My brain and my heart are colliding when I make decisions. The reason why I still want her is because she got all the quality I could ever ask for a girl (gamer, musician, and has a very unique vocabulary) I got my air-fare money and I can go to her anytime but after the post-office incident stating that her address isn't existing I had problems plotting my way to come to her area ever since.
Author healthydude Posted January 21, 2014 Author Posted January 21, 2014 I'm done with her. I've wasted so much time and energy. I think its time for me to just go and continue with my awesome life.
HeavenOrHell Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 Not sure if this is a joke post or not, but giving you the benefit of the doubt; Why were you doing this when you've never even met her >my time spent with her has FUELED me to achieve successes because I was INSPIRED and MOTIVATED by her. < ???? Why are you waiting for someone you've not heard from since October? Isn't that a clear enough message? How can you truly love someone (in the r/ship sense of the word) if you've not met her? She gave you a false address...what more proof do you need that she's not interested? She's probably not even the person she said she was, could be married, anything, who knows. Have some pride and respect for yourself and put this fake 'relationship' behind you. Okay I have a confession to make, People around me in real life will think that I made a terrible mistake finding love online but to tell everyone the truth, my time spent with her has FUELED me to achieve successes because I was INSPIRED and MOTIVATED by her. I live in Philippines and she lives in Western Australia The Story (not very long) I'm 22 years old right now and I last July 2013 I made an MMORPG private server and I spammed it on every facebook group related to gaming. I saw her in a big facebook group, she owns the group and because of that I decided to add her as a friend. I thought with her ownership, I could rake lots of players to play on my server. Then things went AWESOME when I added her on Skype, then we started chatting alot about MUSIC stuff (she makes really good dubstep compositions) and then it lasted until 7-8th of October 2013 (when she disappeared) During July~September I was already earning alot from internet marketing as a "media buyer" (I buy advertisements) like $8,000~10,000 per week because I was able to do work non-stop and I had a plan to fly to her and meet her in real life. Things are going really well for both of us but then during the night of October 8th she told me the following exact words: "If I'm not online, it means I have internet problem. Don't ever let any girl come to you" My response were: "Roger!" So basically that was it. She never went online after that but she was online last December 16th on Facebook and she liked my new profile photo and liked all my statuses but never messaged me. Another thing, I've sent her some small gift to the address she gave me but things shattered inside me when the post office told me that the address were non-existent. I don't know, tell me I'm stupid but I still love this girl. Should I wait for her? 1
HeavenOrHell Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 Ah, it was a joke, well done, you got me I'm done with her. I've wasted so much time and energy. I think its time for me to just go and continue with my awesome life.
TaraMaiden Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 She's probably not even the person she said she was, could be married, anything, who knows. She....could even be... a 'He'.....
HeavenOrHell Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 Yes! I was going to say that, but then he says they skyped, so maybe he saw her...or maybe they only typed on skype, so he could indeed be a he! She....could even be... a 'He'.....
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