langtu Posted January 12, 2005 Posted January 12, 2005 Within a relationship with this gurl for 1 year or so. SHe realli loves me and everything, i feel it too. But an EX contacted her and really express his needs for her. She told me she can't be with me anymore because it won't be perfect for us. She told me that she needs to be back with him in order to figure out her true feelings for him. SO then she can find true love with me --- or with someone else. THis reallie hurts me cause i love the gurl, and she loves me too.. but this ex of her[ her first bf] reallie meant alot to her. What should i do??
Sarah12385 Posted January 12, 2005 Posted January 12, 2005 i'm sorry about your girl leaving, best i can say is to give her the time she needs. are you willing to wait for her? if so, let her know you are, but...you don't wanna wait forever. try 'n keep busy as to not think about it so much if you can. hope everything works our for you. ~Sarah~
Author langtu Posted January 12, 2005 Author Posted January 12, 2005 what is she really feeling ?? i just want to know, Yes i am thinking of waiting for her. Should i tell her that i will wait for her ??? i truly love her, however i can't imagine her spending time with her ex though. he meant alot to her , she just doesnt' realize that she lost her feeligns toward him.
jellybean Posted January 12, 2005 Posted January 12, 2005 Dear lantu This must be so painful for you...if it were me - I would be hurt beyond belief. It's terrible the way she's keeping you in limbo, making you hope and pray that she comes to the decision that it's YOU she wants to be with. And if her attempts to rekindle the romance with her ex fail, and she does come crawling back to you - how are you really going to feel about that? do you want to be with a girl who claims she loves you, yet treats you so heartlessly?
Author langtu Posted January 12, 2005 Author Posted January 12, 2005 I seriously don't know... I KNOW that she doesn't love the guy anymore ?!? what is she doing ?? I feel like that their relationship won't work out... I don't know what to do ... I would feel like trash if she comes back to me when their relationship doesn't work out.
summerlove Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 I can't believe me out off numbers of people saying this and especially in my situation but i say forget her no matter what and move on. there is others out there and there will be one that think more of you than to leave you. i'm really sorry. and i know it hurts . i'm still fighting the feeling of my ex (3rd weeks) but i know me an you can get through the hurt and see the sun again! best of luck!
BrainRightHeartWrong Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 I KNOW that she doesn't love the guy anymore ?!? what is she doing ?? if she really doesn't love him anymore she wouldn't even think about him she is messing you up, manipulating you and hurting you! as hard as it is tell her to f*** off and die! your relationship is DEAD, sorry buddy! read this in 1 years time and you'll completely agree with us! think yourself kinda lucky that there is this other person, it makes you MOVE ON much quicker, if there was someone else involved in my ex relationship it would hurry me on a 1000 times quicker good luck
Author langtu Posted January 13, 2005 Author Posted January 13, 2005 thank you for your replies. i'm sorry but i really can't take those words in right now. telling her to fKKed off and die??? that's is soo mean to hear and i wouldn't have the heart to. sigh ... I hope i can get better by expressing my feeligns online. i always believe that i can get to see the sun again. yes bfaith =] good luck to us. !!!! BELIEVE AND IT SHALL COME TRUE !
Author langtu Posted January 13, 2005 Author Posted January 13, 2005 she just called me.. and CRIED TO ME when i told her that i went out with another girl today, I did it to piss her off and IT DID - DOES SHE REALLIE LOVES ME??? . AHHH !!!!!!!!!!!!! SHE IS DRIVING ME NUTS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
k57 Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 Originally posted by langtu she just called me.. and CRIED TO ME when i told her that i went out with another girl today, I did it to piss her off and IT DID - DOES SHE REALLIE LOVES ME??? . AHHH !!!!!!!!!!!!! SHE IS DRIVING ME NUTS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Call her back, dude. Tell her to **** off.
daphne Posted January 14, 2005 Posted January 14, 2005 lang, don't be a dic!@ and get ugly w/ her. just don't talk to her for a while. let her miss you. i don't mean a few days. i mean a month at the very least. let her stew in her decision. but it may backfire on you if you are an ahole or too nice to her. whenever you do talk to her, try to be intensely apathetic but polite.
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