CORREAUNO Posted January 12, 2005 Posted January 12, 2005 Hi I have a problem with this new girl that I am dating right now. Please help me find the right way in order to win her. I have meet her 1 month ago. She went with another friend to the squash club where I play. I spoke to her a few words not too much and she did not really seem to pay attention to me. The same day that I meet her I went to a party that night and she was right there alone. I started to talk to her and she was very well with me. We danced many times and she even took me to dance once but suddendly she dissapear with some friends of her (I think she has nothing with those friends just friendship). After 2 weeks later I ran to her again on bar. She was with 2 friends from her and she came to me and spoke with me for awhile; then she dissapeared. at the bar close`s I have asked her for his mobile number and she gave it to me. One week later I called her and we went to a night club together with some friends. She was very receptive with me and at the end we even had our hands together. I took her to her house and she left the car very fast (she was drunk). I went to vacations after our last date for 12 days and I called her once and she was very nice with me. At my vacations end she called me and spoke with me and asked me when I was going to come back to the city and I told her that today I was returning. At this conversation she was with a friend of mine. She passed me my friend on the telephone and he told that we could go with her girlfriend, another friend with her girlfriend to and the girl that I like to a countryside house. I said yes imediately (maybe this was a mistake). I went with her on my car and she was fine but when we were at the countryside house I have felt like an invisible wall between us and she was not so friendly with me but at some moments she was very friendly with me. The second 2 day was the worse one. All our friends were sleeping and I asked her to go to a bar to drink something and she said to me NO I rather stay and sleep and I said to her ok. I opened a beer put some music. I relly wanted to do something. 10 minutes after this all my friends woke up and they said lets go to party and she said imediately YES. I did not like that I am no use to being rejected that way. We all went to a very nice bar. I was pretty mad wih this girl because her behaviour to me so I did not demostrate it her that I was mad. We arrive to the club and she ran on some friends of her and stayed a while with then she went to dance with me. after a few songs she ran on other friends of her and this time I got tired of her and I told my friend that I was tired with this girl so a nice beautiful blonde was very close to me so I began to speak to her. After 10 minutes we were dancing very happy and this beautiful blonde introduce to another girl so after 30 minutes I was dancing with these two beutiful girls much better than the girl that I like and after 1.30 hours with those two girls my friend came to me and told you are making this girl crazy she is very mad at you and jelous. As you might haved guessed I was dancing with these two girls in order to get her jelous and mad at me inttentionally. The result was that she got drunk too much and got sick that night I could no asked the telephone to those two girls and as she got so sick I had to carry her from a 7 floor where this bar was using the stairs and took her to the countryside house. At the final day she was very good with me at the day`s beging but at th end she was not very good to me AGAING. I took her to her house and I try to pas my arm over her shoulders and she did not let me in a very polite way. I have my head very confuse (maybe she wants that) and I need help. Should keep calling her ?, What technique should I apply ?, Should I leave her and not call her. What do you think. I am 33 years old good looking, good social place and she is 26 not as good looking as the blonde that I was dancing with but lets say she is pretty and I do like her and I do not know why. THANKS I will appreicate all your help possible. Hernando
curiousnycgirl Posted January 12, 2005 Posted January 12, 2005 Sounds like she is possibly interested in you, but perhaps felt insecure. Being away with someone, even with a group of people, is a big step. I think you need to give her some space possibly take it a bit slowly with her. I also suggest you ask her out for a date, one on one, just the two of you - in the city where she feels safer. If that doesn't work - its not worth the drama - let her go. Best of luck with it!
Author CORREAUNO Posted January 12, 2005 Author Posted January 12, 2005 Hi She just called me today. I really was not expecting her to call me. It can be a good sing. HC
curiousnycgirl Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 I am so happy to hear that, although I still think you need to move slowly - this girl has turned on a dime before. Try to stay cool. Good luck!
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