ithappenedagain Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 for me to be checking my phone religiously in hopes that she sent me a message or called me? - even after she has been blocked? Furthermore, I know false hope makes a bad heart, but do you guys have any advice on conquering my battle with false hope? (I know it is over but I dont want to tell myself it is over) thanks
David87 Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 for me to be checking my phone religiously in hopes that she sent me a message or called me? - even after she has been blocked? Furthermore, I know false hope makes a bad heart, but do you guys have any advice on conquering my battle with false hope? (I know it is over but I dont want to tell myself it is over) thanks I have a good pice off advice for you, find a new girl to send you messages and call you.
mantlefan Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 False hope seems very normal to me. How it manifests itself is different for everyone. For me, it's waking up and thinking for half a second that she might be next to me. I'm 2 months past that point where in my head I know it's over. But my heart and dreams haven't followed completely.
Author ithappenedagain Posted January 20, 2014 Author Posted January 20, 2014 For me, my battle with false hope is the following: -hoping she calls/texts/emails a breadcrumb (yes I know it is pathetic) -hoping she has a change of heart and gives me a second chance -hoping she is as miserable as I am I can go on and on.... I guess I just need to know the best strategy around this behavior. It's day 4 on NC with me, however tomorrow I have the moving company coming to move out my stuff in our shared apartment. (I have been staying at my sisters for the last couple of nights) More than likely I will hit rock bottom again tomorrow as just the thought of seeing our place, our cat and closing the door one final time is killing me. Actually being there tomorrow is going to be torture.
JDPT Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 Completely normal, before you know it your phone will ring and you'll no longer think it's her. 1
mantlefan Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 Completely normal, before you know it your phone will ring and you'll no longer think it's her. Yeah, I remember for a while, whenever a car pulled up, I hoped for just a second it was her and she would run into my arms. I haven't even thought ABOUT thinking that for a few months, until I saw this thread. It gets better OP.
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