nomoreshallwepart Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 Ok, that will sound pretty childish but I'm getting really confused. After a major relationship fail (which brought me to loveshack.org in the first place in April 2013) and a short term thing which, I guess, I should call a rebound, I met a girl. We know each other from some of the college classes but we haven't really talked until recently, after I sent her a friend request on facebook in December. Here's what confuses me: on the one hand she is almost overwhelmingly nice when we talk, dropping a compliment here and there, saying that I should stop making her laugh because her cheeks and stomach hurt and so on. I know that she was going through my facebook posts dating back a few days. She figured out that I was the one who sent her an anonymous note - and teased me on it. She agreed to meet with me for a drink next week. On the other hand - there's this friend of hers who likes all of her stuff on facebook and she posted a kiss emote as a comment to his new profile photo. Her relationship status is still 'single', but I'm just afraid that she's interested in this other guy (or already dating him) and just wants to tease me a bit - and I really don't want to make a fool of myself in front of her... What do you think - is she interested or just being a tease?
bubbaganoosh Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 Meet her for the drink. Talk to her and keep your eyes on her from the neck up and LISTEN. Chances are you'll get some idea if she's just teasing or she likes you. If you feel like she's not up front, it was just a couple of drinks rather than a bunch of heartache. 1
Frank2thepoint Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 Just go have a drink with her. Make banter, flirt, look her in her eyes, and that's it. Whether she likes you as far romance goes, it's too soon to tell. She likes you enough to go out for a drink. Just enjoy the date and don't worry if there is possibly another guy in the picture. It's not like you're declaring your undying love to her. You're not, right right?
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